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What is something you always wanted or wanted to do as a kid?

But never got to...😟

For me it was getting any form of kindness or love, or, having a fun ritual like making Gingerbread houses at Christmas, or having dessert before dinner once in a blue moon.

Whatever it is, you have permission to grant it, Now !!!!!!!!
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i thought i had it all as a kid and i actually did for the most part...loving parents, good homes etc. but when i reflect back on my life i guess i could say i wanted my mother to have a happier upbringing and to have better mental health care throughout her life. not a lot was known about depression or anxiety and throughout my teenage years and into adulthood it was clear she needed help but good help was not easily found....it wasn't until much later in her life doctors figured out the right meds for her but she basically lived a nightmare for over 60 years of her life...knowing what i know now and as i reflect on things i appreciate my mom's amazing efforts in raising me until she passed 2 days prior to my 51st birthday
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@beermeplease I'm sorry she went through so much, what a strong woman 🌸 She still was a wife and mom despite her anxiety. She sounds like she was a wonderful lady🌻
@Coralmist yeah...everyone liked her. she had a good heart. even though i don't know you personally you two would have hit it off....she was the type to have said to me..."beery, coral is such a nice girl, why haven't you asked her out" ...lol she has done that a few times to a couple of my lady friends over the years 🤣
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@beermeplease Aww so sweet, I'm sure I'd have found her endearing 🌞
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Having mum or dad around every single day rather than just during the holidays (I went to a boarding school for the children of service personnel). Two of my sisters and I now form an extended family in our town and make up for lost time by being very close to our children.

I hope you enjoy your belated gingerbread houses and desserts!
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@SunshineGirl I'm sorry Sunshine, I'm sure there's many pros of boarding school but also kids do need their parents' guidance and acceptance frequently too. Hoping you give yourself now special acceptance and kindness now. 🌼 And thank you, I hope to make a Gingerbread house this year!!
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Pretty much the same thing I would want today, but don't have, I'd like to suddenly become extroverted and not be shy.
And no, I cannot have that today, shyness is not something you can just throw off and you can't just suddenly become extroverted.
I guess it might have helped if people understood anxiety back in the day, but they didn't and you were painfully aware that you didn't fit in and we're always going to be the awkward/ uncomfortable one at the party.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Justmeraeagain Well whether you're shy, not shy etc, you are perfect, Now. And even though you felt uncomfortable, you are One great person, and that's what matters in this life🌺🌻🦋
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Coralmist I think that is a great way to feel, but many people don't .they tend to include those who are extroverted and they kind of don't mean to, but neglect those who are not.
Here it is easier to express myself ,because I don't have to have any eye contact and have time to think about what I'm going to say and how I'm going to say it.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
A no-rush road trip to California where we would stay in cabins along the way, stop at the little touristy sites and take photos and look for fossils or other things for souvenirs. And stop at a restaurant once in a while for a burger or other meal. And at the final destination go to an ocean beach and spend a couple of days looking for shells and playing.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@cherokeepatti That sounds super fun ..I hope maybe you can do some or all of it sometime😊🐚
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
I wanted to have a relationship with my biological father, but he didn't want me in his life.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@SlippingAway I'm sorry friend. That has zero to do with you... 🌸 Perhaps Something , somehow was blocking his heart or mind to access. You deserve love and remember to give yourself a bigger bear hug each day💜
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
To have a pool at home in which I could swim. I'm too poor to grant this to myself, lol. 😆 And the desire isn't even that strong anymore.
Climb a tree. It's a simple thing but has a lot behind it.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I wanted to be loved. Didn't happen then. Still hasn't. Finished with that pipe dream.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
I wanted walkie talkies

I also wanted to go to Netherwood school in NB (now called Rothesay Netherwood)
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Jenny1234 I read it first as Netherlands schools. Lol.
You should get walkies now!!
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@Coralmist omg I should! You’re right!
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Jenny1234 I had them to help my dad when he needed home care two years ago. It was a lot better than when he rang a bell lol. They were cool!!
kodiac · 22-25, M
A real family instead of foster care.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@kodiac Ty ...that means a lot.🪻 And that goes for YOU too friend 🫂
kodiac · 22-25, M
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@kodiac So pretty, thank you 🌸
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Wanted to travel to England, not sure about it today
Cigarguy · M
To not live in fear
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Cigarguy Well give yourself that permission now🪻
Cigarguy · M
@Coralmist I am getting there, my fears are different now that I'm older.
First thing was to fly an airplane ✈....done

Rest all the things I wanted or wanted to do - Done except 1. It will be done soon.
SW-User
Go to a waterpark. I think that one is the biggest lost cause no way am i getting in that water now
A personality of my very own would be nice
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@istillhaveanameitsrick I feel this. I had to be a robot slave for years growing up, and under a narcissist, they are like demons who squash any individuality. I feel I don't know who I am even now. I wish you the strength to be how you Want 🌺
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
Be a rich kid. 😁
Musicman · 61-69, M
I always wanted to go on vacation.
Musicman · 61-69, M
@Jenny1234 As a kid we only went twice. One for 4 days and the other a week. These days my wife and I are retired and have a motorhome. Friday we are heading out on a three day trip to Orlando.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@Musicman wouldn’t you consider your three day trip to Orlando a bit of a vacation?
Musicman · 61-69, M
@Jenny1234 A mini one. We have an appointment on Saturday to have our three rooftop air conditioners replaced. Not exactly fun. As an adult my wife and I have had some nice vacations. We have had two seven week trips in the motorhome. 🙂🙂🙂
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