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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Pretty much the same thing I would want today, but don't have, I'd like to suddenly become extroverted and not be shy.
And no, I cannot have that today, shyness is not something you can just throw off and you can't just suddenly become extroverted.
I guess it might have helped if people understood anxiety back in the day, but they didn't and you were painfully aware that you didn't fit in and we're always going to be the awkward/ uncomfortable one at the party.
And no, I cannot have that today, shyness is not something you can just throw off and you can't just suddenly become extroverted.
I guess it might have helped if people understood anxiety back in the day, but they didn't and you were painfully aware that you didn't fit in and we're always going to be the awkward/ uncomfortable one at the party.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Justmeraeagain Well whether you're shy, not shy etc, you are perfect, Now. And even though you felt uncomfortable, you are One great person, and that's what matters in this life🌺🌻🦋
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Coralmist I think that is a great way to feel, but many people don't .they tend to include those who are extroverted and they kind of don't mean to, but neglect those who are not.
Here it is easier to express myself ,because I don't have to have any eye contact and have time to think about what I'm going to say and how I'm going to say it.
Here it is easier to express myself ,because I don't have to have any eye contact and have time to think about what I'm going to say and how I'm going to say it.