By 'you' do you mean me or other people? My grandparents were old before they were sixty, my parents were definitely getting on a bit by that age too. I on the other hand feel younger now at 69 than I did ten years ago and certainly felt younger than either my parents or grandparents did at that age.
It all depends on your lifestyle, genetic luck, living in a healthy environment, etc. In my case living in Norway for more than half my life, never having smoked, drank only moderately and never having had to work in a job that was bad for my health.
I listened to a BBC Radio 4 program today in which an 80 year old woman was describing how she took up running half marathons at 60 and is now doing triathlons. She's not setting any records but still it's something that many of us couldn't do (including me!).
@ninalanyon i know it varies from person to person. The inspiration behind this post was my mother who turned 60 this year telling me consistently how she feels she looks very old now. For the first time. But her health is in great condition and her father is still alive today at 92. Im nearing 30 and never have i thought more about the subject than i have in this last year
@astrosandorbits Sometimes I think people just feel that they must be old because tradition says that they are, I see that here on SW with people saying they are old at fifty. But health, nutrition, and work have all improved so much over the last hundred years that the old traditions no longer apply. I feel old only in the literal sense that I am older than my mother was when she died and that I have some trivial signs of ageing such as high blood pressure, but I don't feel my age (and if you look at my blog you'll see that I don't always act it either).
It's good to hear that your mother is in good health, And with genes like her father's you both probably have a long and healthy future ahead.
@astrosandorbits If you haven't already done it, get a medical checkup. My brother-in-law had a similar situation with heart problems in his family. His son, my nephew, dropped dead with a heart attack at 43. My bro-in-law has heart issues, but the doctors are doing a good job to keep him going. He even has an artificial heart pump and still travels to Europe every year. Get a regular checkup!
When you cannot find anything to be positive and/or happy about. When your woes matter more to you than anything else. When you give up on life and on living. When you cannot or will not listen to others and their thoughts or opinions. That is being close minded. And that means old. I imagine after retirement is a good time to start being old. Older anyway. When you yell at people of any age to get off your grass. When you think of people in their twenties as kids. When you are in the decade and you cannot find a job and you cannot retire just yet. When your inner child dies. Oh, when you come on SW looking for nudes and drool over them. Mostly older perverted men. From ages 35 right on up into their 70's. That is old.
@metaldog hmmm i really like this response. I've always been inquisitive since i was little and have resigned to the fact that there will be things i might never know the answer to before i die
My personal opinion is that it's around 50 for the body and around 60 for the mind in most people. I might be wrong though because I don't know 'most people'.
@astrosandorbits I remember when I was a kid, the world acted like age 40 was basically the end. I do not really know now because 40 was 10 years ago for me. But yeah over 40 is when things started going wrong for me.
@Magenta It wasn't real bad for me, I think closer to 45 is when things started going wrong. I am just not dealing with 50 very well.
You start trimming your nose hairs, use your gut as a table when your sitting at the couch and you no longer sweat. You just smell like dust all the time.
And you notice your saggy arms flapping when you wave.