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In your opinion when do you start getting "old?"

ninalanyon · 61-69, T
By 'you' do you mean me or other people? My grandparents were old before they were sixty, my parents were definitely getting on a bit by that age too. I on the other hand feel younger now at 69 than I did ten years ago and certainly felt younger than either my parents or grandparents did at that age.

It all depends on your lifestyle, genetic luck, living in a healthy environment, etc. In my case living in Norway for more than half my life, never having smoked, drank only moderately and never having had to work in a job that was bad for my health.

I listened to a BBC Radio 4 program today in which an 80 year old woman was describing how she took up running half marathons at 60 and is now doing triathlons. She's not setting any records but still it's something that many of us couldn't do (including me!).

So to answer your question: I've really no idea!
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@ninalanyon i know it varies from person to person. The inspiration behind this post was my mother who turned 60 this year telling me consistently how she feels she looks very old now. For the first time. But her health is in great condition and her father is still alive today at 92. Im nearing 30 and never have i thought more about the subject than i have in this last year
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@astrosandorbits Sometimes I think people just feel that they must be old because tradition says that they are, I see that here on SW with people saying they are old at fifty. But health, nutrition, and work have all improved so much over the last hundred years that the old traditions no longer apply. I feel old only in the literal sense that I am older than my mother was when she died and that I have some trivial signs of ageing such as high blood pressure, but I don't feel my age (and if you look at my blog you'll see that I don't always act it either).

It's good to hear that your mother is in good health, And with genes like her father's you both probably have a long and healthy future ahead.
When "you" decide to give up living..
exexec · 70-79, C
My midlife crisis was at 35, but I really didn't start feeling old until about 55. That's when my body told me to slow down.
exexec · 70-79, C
@astrosandorbits If you haven't already done it, get a medical checkup. My brother-in-law had a similar situation with heart problems in his family. His son, my nephew, dropped dead with a heart attack at 43. My bro-in-law has heart issues, but the doctors are doing a good job to keep him going. He even has an artificial heart pump and still travels to Europe every year. Get a regular checkup!
@astrosandorbits Then take great care of yourself. Your history indicates you must. Start exercise habits and dietary healthy habits now.
exexec · 70-79, C
@PoetryNEmotion I'm fine. No problems in my family line, but I do take care of myself.
When you cannot find anything to be positive and/or happy about.
When your woes matter more to you than anything else.
When you give up on life and on living.
When you cannot or will not listen to others and their thoughts or opinions. That is being close minded. And that means old.
I imagine after retirement is a good time to start being old. Older anyway.
When you yell at people of any age to get off your grass.
When you think of people in their twenties as kids.
When you are in the decade and you cannot find a job and you cannot retire just yet.
When your inner child dies.
Oh, when you come on SW looking for nudes and drool over them. Mostly older perverted men. From ages 35 right on up into their 70's. That is old.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
It depends on how healthy you are. Take Ernie Hudson for instance, our neighborhood Ghostbuster. This man looks damn good for his age.


Thank God for melanin!
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
when my back bone pain started knocking me
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
You start trimming your nose hairs, use your gut as a table when your sitting at the couch and you no longer sweat. You just smell like dust all the time.

And you notice your saggy arms flapping when you wave.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@GuyWithOpinions mannnnn i started trimming my nose hairs at 25. Dad then starts telling me... wait until it starts growing out of your ears 😅🤣
calicuz · 56-60, M
When the aches and pains are there as you go to sleep, and still there when you wake up. 👴
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@calicuz not looking forward to it
when you stop being inquisitive and when you stop keeping fit
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@metaldog hmmm i really like this response. I've always been inquisitive since i was little and have resigned to the fact that there will be things i might never know the answer to before i die
turbineman40 · 80-89, M
Easier than you think---at least, ten years older than I am
Entwistle · 56-60, M
From the moment of conception it begins.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@Entwistle damn that's one way to look at it
When your back or knees say so. lol 🤣
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@userfawkes1105 not there yet but not looking forward to it 🙄
Iwillwait · M
When you're dead.
I'M NOT OLD, YOU'RE OLD!
CestManan · 46-50, F
I think on average, when people hit 40.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@astrosandorbits I remember when I was a kid, the world acted like age 40 was basically the end.
I do not really know now because 40 was 10 years ago for me.
But yeah over 40 is when things started going wrong for me.

@Magenta It wasn't real bad for me, I think closer to 45 is when things started going wrong.
I am just not dealing with 50 very well.
Magenta · F
@CestManan Aaw, I'm sorry. I guess it's different for each of us. 🌷
CestManan · 46-50, F
@Magenta Just a bunch of major events all hit in a short amount of time.
supersnipe · 61-69, M
'Older' at 55 or so, 'Old' at 65, which I've passed. At what stage I become 'elderly' I'm not quite sure, but it's not yet!
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@supersnipe like some have said health definitely plays a part in all of it. If youe 80 and in great health then you could still feel like 30
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
My personal opinion is that it's around 50 for the body and around 60 for the mind in most people. I might be wrong though because I don't know 'most people'.
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
When you turn 21 years old.......By that time you have stopped growing, so there is only one way to go after that........jmo.....lol
MrGomco · 36-40, M
Physically when you are 78
Mentally wen you have a hostile attitude about life, it could be even if you're 15.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@MrGomco frowning ages people so i hear
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
You are old once you consider yourself old, and not until then. I will continue to live out my extended teenage years!
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
When I was your age would have said late 60's now that I'm 58 going to say late 80's😁
@Justmeraeagain funny how that happens lol
When you have no more hope or reason to live. Otherwise it's all just a number.
We're always older and younger than someone else..
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@SStarfish i like this response. So true and it says a lot in very few words.
Felina · F
80 plus years is old , it’s possible to age backwards though just like Benjamin Button

Exercise plays a big part in that 🥰
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@Felina thank God i go walking everyday. It has changed my life 💙
iamBen · 61-69, M
When you start feeling old
GovanDUNNY · M
When you leave home
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@GovanDUNNY dang i left home at 18 lol
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
When your body says so.
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
When I was 9
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Not sure. Now get off of my lawn.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@uncalled4 *leaves and kicks your garden gnome
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2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
If we live long enough we get old our bodies begin to breakdown and when that happens you accept it
For a man, when he is 70. For a woman, 23.
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@Dignaga lol
Cowboybob · M
As soon as you know better
mbai2223 · 26-30, F
astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
@mbai2223 oldie
It’s not the same for everyone.
2 days after death.

 
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