What would you change about yourself if you were able too !

I’d turn off the intrusive thoughts that tell me I’m worthless

Nothing. I just want to live my life. Maybe without asthma compromising my life

I would dump my guilt-ridden, shame-laced and worthlessness-promoting parental programming and the effects of all of their violent abuse. Even with all the years of therapy, I've never been able to get beyond it to know how to relate with people in a healthy way, and to find happiness in my life.

My face
My name

I'm still working on getting overly cross about stupid things. Never people, just frustrating things like losing my keys when I have an appointment and no amount of searching produces a result. The 2-year-old inside me is alive and kicking. I've been much better this year.

I want to look like this

Magic away the Tuberous Schlerosis and the Tumours in the brain.. Or the bad back...Get rid of the Arthritis maybe... Lets face it, I need to be bit by a radioactive spider and gain super powers.

I wish I was born a Female.

My trauma, my brain, my body, my smile🙄

Actually there's 2 things. Change my looks because I'm beyond ugly and the second would be my health, because it's poor.

Nothing i like myself just the way i am

Nothing

We should all stop seeking shit and just accept we are the people we are

I'd get rid of 2 months out of my life. Also, I think I would upgrade my sarcasm a bit from amazing to god-like.

To have the courage to let everyone know that I enjoy wearing women's clothing and go out in public without fearing what may happen.

Most people here would change their sex!

I guess if I could change any one thing about myself it would be nothing.
Now I can twist any topic to include the subject.
My kids like me just the way I am faults and all.
That is actually the only thing that matters to me.

Shut off my over caring heart

I'd like to learn how to trust (and overcome fear of meeting and approaching new) people again so that I can have proper relationships both romantic/intimate and professional (business, etc.) plus feel I can trust SME's in other fields I'm not skilled in (like health and medical stuff). I think my inability to trust especially in intimate/romantic situations is a big part of what wrecks me being socially outgoing and interactive so put me in situations where I might meet and feel confident to interact with others who may become romantic connections.

Working on the squishy issue. 🤨
My mind is a little wacked, would like it if that shit would stop. 🙄

My low self esteem, depression, id take away my suicidal thoughts, my lack of confidence... basically whole me lol

Go back to my 30's with the knowledge I have now. It was a great time.

I’d have confidence and believe in myself, despite all the abusive programming and neglect I’ve had.

To be more assertive

less masculine. its just too much at this point, you know 😆

My belief that I have a reliance on alcohol

The ability to say no more often,i always try to find a way to keep everyone happy but it is often a lost cause and i spead myself to thin x

Better health

My screwed up medical and physical issues.

I want to have more muscles and less fat.

Not to be so sensitive 🙄

My station.
I’m not where I want to be in life right now. I’m trying really hard to change things but it’s a very uphill battle

Penis reduction. Lately it's got out of control..

Would live my life again its gone to fast

Have more confidence in myself.

{@image] 😣 a few things sadly my impatience and lack of tolerance with some but i am far from perfect as is nobody

I would stop feeling guilty about things i had no control over

Having no relationship with my parents (they divorced in 1980 when I was 12) from about 1990 ish onwards. I never had contact again with my dad (who died about 2011) and very little with my mum who died at the end of 2020. I think I cut them off because of the divorce and how that affected me. I have hated the concept of marriage, etc. ever since though.

Like many women my age, I wish I had tighter skin, and less wrinkles.

I would lose my extra weight, and be a happier person in general.

I'd get a penis reduction

Lose 30 pounds and keep,it off with the same lousy diet I have now.

My disability