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What would you change about yourself if you were able too !

summersong · F
I’d turn off the intrusive thoughts that tell me I’m worthless
Moonstone · 51-55, F
@summersong please do that anyway. Don’t wait for a genie to make a wish….do it now. I hope you can. 💙
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@summersong Why do you listen to them? Why do you believe them? If you dismiss them, they have no power. I know, easy to say. I'm not pretending it's simple. But if you can find the answer to those two questions you'll be half way there.
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
@summersong You have value to me. Your a good friend and fun to talk to
Katwoman · F
Nothing. I just want to live my life. Maybe without asthma compromising my life
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Katwoman Thank God x
Katwoman · F
@Imagine Amen 🙏 ❤️
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
@Katwoman I had that when i was a kid but i grew out of it
LostLissa · 36-40, F
My face
My name
LostLissa · 36-40, F
@Viper probably Bianca, Layla, or Jade
brian29715 · 46-50, M
@LostLissa I enjoy both, but have no say.
heavyone2 · 61-69, M
@LostLissa NO,, no need for that ,,, you are gorgeous!
Goodlife · 26-30, M
I wish I was born a Female.
Randie · 61-69, T
I am a life long crossdresser. I used to wish iI was a girl. As I got older and admitted mt bisexuality to myself I began wishing I was a shemale.
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
@Randie In my opinion that is better 😍
Goodlife · 26-30, M
For the sex. A mens life is boring. Mens clothes are very standard. A female can do a lot with her looks. Hair,Clothes,Look very sexy.Take you profile picture .Can a man look that sexy?
Having a pussy and pair of tits. A sexy female can get away with almost everything.@Imagine]
I would dump my guilt-ridden, shame-laced and worthlessness-promoting parental programming and the effects of all of their violent abuse. Even with all the years of therapy, I've never been able to get beyond it to know how to relate with people in a healthy way, and to find happiness in my life.
Grateful4you · 70-79, M
@PhoenixPhail Such a tragic insight. At least the self- realization is a pathway to wellness. I wish you well. You might check out "Positive psychology" on YouTube. A simple but amazing form of therapy. For me, actually, life changing.
@Grateful4you Thanks. I'll take a look. However, if medication and 60 years of therapy haven't helped that much, I don't know that there's anything else that can.
Grateful4you · 70-79, M
@PhoenixPhail My major in college was Psych. which I lost faith in the "therapeutic" usefulness of. Many decades later I came across this practical approach to wellness, buddy, at least it's worth a try. My heart goes out to you, my very best wishes. I know things will get better.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
I'm still working on getting overly cross about stupid things. Never people, just frustrating things like losing my keys when I have an appointment and no amount of searching produces a result. The 2-year-old inside me is alive and kicking. I've been much better this year.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Abstraction I'm not sure what to say babes x
Thevy29 · 36-40, M
Magic away the Tuberous Schlerosis and the Tumours in the brain.. Or the bad back...Get rid of the Arthritis maybe... Lets face it, I need to be bit by a radioactive spider and gain super powers.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Thevy29 You are messy of course x
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
Actually there's 2 things. Change my looks because I'm beyond ugly and the second would be my health, because it's poor.
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@Imagine humour lol. I'm just about the least humourous person in the world ever lol. But yes I will.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@VirginMatchmaker I laughed x
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@Imagine lol
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
Nothing i like myself just the way i am
Imagine · 26-30, F
@JohnOlinger Lets say I'd swing for him babes lol x
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
@Imagine nice
Imagine · 26-30, F
@JohnOlinger Always nice x
Cassieeee · 26-30, F
My trauma, my brain, my body, my smile🙄
Cassieeee · 26-30, F
@Imagine On second thought, I'll keep the attitude
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Cassieeee Haha x
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Cassieeee Yes i think you should babe x
GLITTER · 36-40, F
Nothing

We should all stop seeking shit and just accept we are the people we are
Imagine · 26-30, F
@GLITTER Ah ok you are right of course x
Dainbramadge · 51-55, M
I guess if I could change any one thing about myself it would be nothing.
Now I can twist any topic to include the subject.
My kids like me just the way I am faults and all.
That is actually the only thing that matters to me.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Dainbramadge Lovely to be contented babes x
Wol62 · 46-50, M
Most people here would change their sex!
Wol62 · 46-50, M
@silkydrawers You look beautiful!
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Wol62 Thank you x
@Imagine Thank you!❤️
SW-User
[c=4C0073]if i was able to, i'd manipulate neutrinos to my benefit .[/c]
SW-User
@Imagine [c=4C0073]neutrinos are complicated, but can be explained as the very particles that exist everywhere, .. smaller than atoms ..
so they are potentially the building blocks of the whole universe and everything in it, everything.[/c]
Havesomefun · 56-60, M
Imagine · 26-30, F
@SW-User Oh of course x
20Twenty · M
Shut off my over caring heart
20Twenty · M
@PhoenixPhail oh, I do
Thanks
itsok · 31-35, F
@20Twenty I’ll help 😈
*flips switch*
20Twenty · M
@itsok 🤭🤗☺️
Nooneanymore · 46-50, F
My low self esteem, depression, id take away my suicidal thoughts, my lack of confidence... basically whole me lol
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Nooneanymore Message me you need more friends I think 💋x
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Working on the squishy issue. 🤨
My mind is a little wacked, would like it if that shit would stop. 🙄
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Jeephikelove I cannot understand babes x
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
@Imagine I’m overweight, I overthink everything and have trust issues. ☹️
Carissimi · 61-69, F
I’d have confidence and believe in myself, despite all the abusive programming and neglect I’ve had.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Carissimi x2 with that.
TallMtnMedic · 41-45, M
I'd get rid of 2 months out of my life. Also, I think I would upgrade my sarcasm a bit from amazing to god-like.
Niloo · 46-50, F
To be more assertive
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Niloo There are books on that i think x
Niloo · 46-50, F
@Imagine
I have read a few .knowing about it and actually being able do to it are not exactly the same 🙃
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Niloo Yes I see x
I’d get rid of my bouts of depression.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard Are you taking anything to help x
SW-User
My belief that I have a reliance on alcohol
SW-User
@Imagine I’ve thought about this before but I know I will just talk my way out of that. I’ve put small breaks in the past, like only drink on a Friday and Saturday, but then I’ll give myself an excuse to drink on another night.

This time I’ve set myself no goals. Just going to see how long I will go. I go to the store this evening so that will be my first real challenge as I have no alcohol in the house at the moment.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@SW-User Oh babes i wish you luck, message me if you need to chat 💋
SW-User
@Imagine really appreciate it thank you.
seajays26 · 56-60, M
The ability to say no more often,i always try to find a way to keep everyone happy but it is often a lost cause and i spead myself to thin x
Cantsayno · 51-55, M
@seajays26 that’s me too
Imagine · 26-30, F
@seajays26 i understand completely x
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Cantsayno I understand completely x
My screwed up medical and physical issues.
@Imagine Yes . Along with a whole team of specialists I thank the heavens for.😉

Thanks for asking.😊
@MoonlightLullaby Thank you, S. I'm working on it. And your positive outlook inspires me to look for the many beautiful moments available to me.

Have a Great Day. 🤗 ❤ x
Imagine · 26-30, F
@MoonlightLullaby Take care x
Fairydust · 46-50, F
Not to be so sensitive 🙄
Fairydust · 46-50, F
@PhoenixPhail that’s sad 😞 hope it gets better.
@Fairydust Thanks. I've improved a great deal. AND, I'm seeing my counselor today. YAY!
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
I'd like to learn how to trust (and overcome fear of meeting and approaching new) people again so that I can have proper relationships both romantic/intimate and professional (business, etc.) plus feel I can trust SME's in other fields I'm not skilled in (like health and medical stuff). I think my inability to trust especially in intimate/romantic situations is a big part of what wrecks me being socially outgoing and interactive so put me in situations where I might meet and feel confident to interact with others who may become romantic connections.
Penis reduction. Lately it's got out of control..
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Majorlatency Oh why x
@Imagine Thinking of you give me the urge to wave around a cucumber and do perverse acts with it and a donut as a visual aid..!
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Majorlatency Oh you are such a comedian babes x
TAReturns · M
My station.
I’m not where I want to be in life right now. I’m trying really hard to change things but it’s a very uphill battle
Imagine · 26-30, F
@TAReturns You'll get there I'm sure x
kodiac · 22-25, M
I would stop feeling guilty about things i had no control over
Imagine · 26-30, F
@kodiac Maybe that will come with age x
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
Having no relationship with my parents (they divorced in 1980 when I was 12) from about 1990 ish onwards. I never had contact again with my dad (who died about 2011) and very little with my mum who died at the end of 2020. I think I cut them off because of the divorce and how that affected me. I have hated the concept of marriage, etc. ever since though.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@zonavar68 @zonavar68 I really do not know how to reply x
Moonstone · 51-55, F
Like many women my age, I wish I had tighter skin, and less wrinkles.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Moonstone Yes I think that is something every woman dreams of x
likesnatural · 70-79, M
Lose 30 pounds and keep,it off with the same lousy diet I have now.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@likesnatural Ah that's dedication babes x
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
I'd get a penis reduction
Imagine · 26-30, F
@HoraceGreenley Haha of course you would Lol x
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@Imagine It's a real cross to bear. You have no idea.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@HoraceGreenley No I don't Lol x
Barny52 · 56-60, M
knock about 30yrs of my body's age ,,no more aches and pains
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Barny52 I understand that x
Imagine · 26-30, F
@VTDESTINY Well joining SW is a start x
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
I would like to understand how to do friendships/relationships, love, romance and intimacy and stop feeling as though it's an impenetrable dark space in my adult understanding with both no tangible content and no discernable 'doorway' to enter the space to put anything there through the experiences I've had to date.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@zonavar68 Oh wow i need to read that a few times x
Graciemac654 · 18-21, F
I'd be able to make and maintain friends without fucking it up.
Djac17 · 18-21, M
I wish I had more muscle and less fat. And was smarter
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Djac17 Try harder to rectify that then baby x
Cassieeee · 26-30, F
My mental health
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Cassieeee Do you talk to your family and friends about it x
Cassieeee · 26-30, F
@Imagine I'm in therapy so I talk with her. Whenever I try to talk to other people it usually ends up with my comforting them for not knowing how to respond 😅
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Cassieeee So at least you are getting help x
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Imagine · 26-30, F
@babyboy44 Well you must be content x
I would love to become a real girl.
Imagine · 26-30, F
@silkydrawers Good luck babes x
YellowJello · 26-30, F
my boobs size ? and my mindsets
Imagine · 26-30, F
@YellowJello Bigger or smaller x
Mr7inch · 31-35, M
Maybe loose some weight
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Mr7inch Well go for it babes, having 7 inches doesn't help lol x
romell · 46-50, M
bank balance for sure
Imagine · 26-30, F
@romell Yes i can understand that x
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
I want to live by the beach
nuddie · 61-69, M
To be nude more
Imagine · 26-30, F
@nuddie Easily solved babes x
curvie1 · 46-50, M
slimmer belly :)
Imagine · 26-30, F
@curvie1 I'm surprised you are the first to say that x
Nanori · 26-30, F
Imagine · 26-30, F
@Nanori Ah that's good x
boredintexas · 36-40, M
Less joint pain lol
BeachGirl47 · 26-30, F

 
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