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HonestAndHopeful · 46-50, F
If you really aren't interested, it doesn't matter if you ask or not. There's no point making him feel guilty if you don't like him though.
hopeespe · 26-30, F
but he keeps flirting and asking me to dates
HonestAndHopeful · 46-50, F
Yes but do you want to go?
hopeespe · 26-30, F
@HonestAndHopeful: not really but free food. point is, he is trying to play

jacqui22 · F
If you aren't interested what does it matter
hopeespe · 26-30, F
that is what i was thinking, but then again he still flirts with me and asks me to date soo yea
zyan07 · 26-30, M
@hopeespe: Maybe he's cheating with that other girl. So you know what kind of guy he is.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I guess he's not waiting.
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Oh, to be that young and have that much time to fuck around again...
TexChik · F
Since you are not giving him any reason to believe that he has a chance with you ... naturally he is going to move on. Why would you ask him about it? He can tell you are not interested.
hopeespe · 26-30, F
lol If he keeps flirting with me and asking me to dates, obvi he doesn't
Serenitree · F
@hopeespe: you are interested.

Nov. 5/16
12:16 am
TexChik · F
@hopeespe: he's hopeful but if you aren't going to give him the emotional support and relationship he's looking for , he'll get it some where else
TheBluePrince · 26-30, M
He is a jerk when he knows your not interested him him and he keeps asking. Maybe he needs to get it in to his head your not interested him him and move on.
TheBluePrince · 26-30, M
She can do much better than someone who wont take no for an answer or someone who is playing stupid pathetic games
Serenitree · F
@DarkNight: oh, sorry, I didn't realize you know her personally.

Nov. 5/16
12:45 am
TheBluePrince · 26-30, M
I don't I just think that anyone deserves better than some needy idiot who keeps pursuing someone who does not want to date.
Chrisredfeild · 46-50, M
Serenitree · F
You just said you aren't interested. Why are you interested in whose name pops up on his phone, and what emojis are used?

November. 5/16
12:08 am.
hopeespe · 26-30, F
because he continues to flirt with and and asking me to dates
Serenitree · F
@hopeespe: so continue to ignore him, if you aren't interested. I'm saying, if you're really not interested, then it doesn't matter. If you don't like him flirting with you and getting texts from another girl, just tell him straight out, "I'm not interested, stop bothering me".

Nov. 5/16
12:14 am.
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TheBluePrince · 26-30, M
@LilyOfTheVally. You are so right. its always best to be honest and upfront because if you give someone the wrong signals it only leads to more heartache and thats not good.

Tho I do agree on one thing. She has said she is not interested in a relationship so why would it matter if he did have a message from a girl on his phone. She just needs to make her feelings plain to him and tell him to move on
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
What Jacqui wrote.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
He's not attached. You're not attached. He's just trying to hit it. If you're not interested, let him be and tell him the truth. Grabbing a free meal is wrong no matter what he says because you know what he's thinking.
Let it go. If you're not interested in him anyway, asking him about it would only make him feel that you are interested in him. So, better not to give wrong signals.

 
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