Should I be straight up and ask?

So this guy likes me and he has been trying to impress me and try to get with me but I'm making him wait and honestly I don't seem to have interest in him. But today I accidentally saw a notification pop up from his phone and its the name of a girl with heart emojis next to it. Should I ask what the deal is or just let it go?

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TheBluePrince · 26-30, M

@LilyOfTheVally. You are so right. its always best to be honest and upfront because if you give someone the wrong signals it only leads to more heartache and thats not good.

Tho I do agree on one thing. She has said she is not interested in a relationship so why would it matter if he did have a message from a girl on his phone. She just needs to make her feelings plain to him and tell him to move on