Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
Different · 31-35, M
@Lilliesandlight i think she may be
swandfriends · 41-45, F
She probably liked you as a friend and just needed a friend at that moment in time. I'm somewhat going through something similar. I met a guy one year ago that I consider the love of my life. He was super excited about me. After a few weeks I learned he was suicidal and had drinking problems. I was THERE for him. When the tables turned and I had anything I was either going through or even something I was excited about, he wouldn't respond to me. Wasn't there like I was for him. He still would occasionally make me feel like I was all he ever needed, but then found out he was seeing other girls.
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Different · 31-35, M
@swandfriends yeah i havent contacted her and left it like that now i just see her around alot. But yeah mzybe if she finally grows enough to leave him shell reach out but even if she did i now dont know to forgive her myself anyway cause who does all that to a person eho was nothing but kind to them and always had their back and respected them.
swandfriends · 41-45, F
Different · 31-35, M
@swandfriends yeah but they usually dont care about you and only themselves so its hard.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Its possible she could have been talking to a friend who was telling her "just go talk to him" and when you slammed the door she said, " i tried". Shes sending mixed signals, she likes you, thats why shes always "looking for you" or trying to be in the vicinity of where she expects to see you. Is it possible that she felt guilty about having a boyfriend and was trying to pull away from you when you say that she ignored you when you were going through something? But at the same token wanted to be near you when she was going through something. Does it sound a bit stalkish, yes! But is it? Not necessarily. People are weird. If i were you i would have a conversation and put it all on the table. Whether you are okay with her having a boyfriend, can you just be friends, if so we need to set some boundaries etc...just try having an adult conversation, and go with your gut I'm sure that you are capable of good judgment 😃
Different · 31-35, M
@AngelUnforgiven i am good at judgement but im not gonna bug her she has ignored me even after the fall out we had i did attempt once to reconnect but ahe ignored me. So to me it was a clear message you don't care so why even try being around me and keep searching for me and yeah i dont see it as stalking or anything.
But i guess if i see her again i can say something but idk cause i dont wanna be the one to fix something i didnt break.
But i guess if i see her again i can say something but idk cause i dont wanna be the one to fix something i didnt break.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Different then you have your answer
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YoMomma ·
Maybe they are trying to rob your truck?
YoMomma ·
@Different yeah i was just ignoring it.. i'm paranoid of thieves.. in a way i relate to her too much because i tried dating while already in a relationship and it can't work if one isn't ready to let go of their existing situation.. no point in dragging anyone else in she needs to back off out of your hair/space 😬 i'm just distracted by delivery thief and they may be targeting your truck idk 😏 😤
NinaCherry · 26-30, F
i can date you, i got freckles like you 😅
Tumbleweed · F
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
@Tumbleweed She is the kind of person who will say nothing but just stare into your eyes for a long long time.... then she says "I know what you are thinking, Sarah.." and i have to run to the loo.......
Tumbleweed · F
@sarahcupcake Exactly.
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
@Tumbleweed ...** locks the loo door **
dale74 · M
Sounds like a catfish did she want money