What is it that she wanted ?

So this girl who came into my life during a horrible time and said she was my friend and had my back and supported me at first abd built a strong connection with me ended up doing a 360 after texting me 24/7 told me she liked me when she was "drunk" and never mentioned having a bf for the whole first month & when she did i was really caught up in just having a friend so i let it slide but to fast forward it just became abuncha games, Hot & Cold behaviour and then was there for me during one of my worse moments but when i needed support still just even a keep going, she ignored me. So as she started to ignore me off/on she then reached out to me needing support i still supported her and helped her through her situation anyway even though i was ignored.

Thats when i started to question myself on if she was really my friend or not or if i just been her emotional side guy cause her BF doesn't treat her right and does mean things to her. So i eventually called her out after being ignored again and let her know even though you ignored me during a hard time in my life i still helped you anyway and wanted to know why she led me on this whole time, even after knowing what i been going through and why was i someone to target and she ghosted me.

Well sense we deliver in the same area and also live in the same city and not far from eachother now but lately i have had weird run ins with her, whether were in the same place delivering or i ended up delivering on her block and would sometimes see her and even once delivered to her house. I make sure i do her block fast to avoid her though & i been seeing her more then i see my other old co workers from her company and the other day i was delivering on the busy street but her block off of it i was on the corner end. I was doing the apartments on the busy street so i was at the end of her block & their was no parking so i had park in a red zone & i walked up. I thought i noticed a white car pulling up slow from the corner of my eye but i didn't fully look up, which she drives & as i walk up to do the apartments & finally head back i see her with her dog in leggings standing right next to my truck as if shes just innocently walking her dog & im like wtf in my head and i walk by fast and didn't even look at her and then slam the door shut quick and then drive off without even staring at her at all. But i heard her on the phone say " i tried, he just slammed it shut"

I really dont know what it is she was looking for? She knows how to reach me if she really wanted go talk.

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

Its possible she could have been talking to a friend who was telling her "just go talk to him" and when you slammed the door she said, " i tried". Shes sending mixed signals, she likes you, thats why shes always "looking for you" or trying to be in the vicinity of where she expects to see you. Is it possible that she felt guilty about having a boyfriend and was trying to pull away from you when you say that she ignored you when you were going through something? But at the same token wanted to be near you when she was going through something. Does it sound a bit stalkish, yes! But is it? Not necessarily. People are weird. If i were you i would have a conversation and put it all on the table. Whether you are okay with her having a boyfriend, can you just be friends, if so we need to set some boundaries etc...just try having an adult conversation, and go with your gut I'm sure that you are capable of good judgment 😃

Different · 31-35, M

@AngelUnforgiven i am good at judgement but im not gonna bug her she has ignored me even after the fall out we had i did attempt once to reconnect but ahe ignored me. So to me it was a clear message you don't care so why even try being around me and keep searching for me and yeah i dont see it as stalking or anything.

But i guess if i see her again i can say something but idk cause i dont wanna be the one to fix something i didnt break.