I really need some good advice. My spiritual advisor advised me not to get a divorce

You did your part and stayed until your kids were grown up. If that was I good idea I do not know because staying together the kids also saw that and the affect on you. But now you have to look out for yourself because its your life and whats make's you happy. Do you want to be the person that broke up the marrage well the marrage was broken already you and just ending it and moving on. But things to get ready for do you work do you have your own bank account do you have life insurance do you own the house you are living in. Do not fight over small things the end game is to get out. If you have life insurance you will have to change the benificarire to your estate

I’m confused. Why would a spiritual advisor not be supportive of your happiness? You obviously sacrificed for the sake of your children so now it’s time to take care of yourself.

If you got advice from what I assume is a trusted source for yourself and you are looking for other opinions because you did not like the advice given I think you already know what you should be doing. It seems like you are asking for permission rather than advice.

I wish you luck, but if your spiritual advisor's advice is making miserable, perhaps it's time to switch to some other spiritual advisor.

He is likely your husband's spiritual advisor as well. And giving advice that serves his other client.

Let me do some spiritual michmichmuchaa.

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After connecting to 99th dimension I conclude you need to find yourself someone who can bless you with a proper Wohoooo!!!

You will forever be an inspiration to your children and grandchildren. Having said that, imyaware that these things are. often much more complex than that 1 issue

I'd think that depends on what efforts you've put in to fix things and how much value you see in the marriage.

You should not sacrifice your happiness, however sometimes we may find that having a thing is not so pleasing as wanting a thing. Where is the true source of your happiness?

No. You deserve some joy.

You could try marriage or relationship counseling.

Tbh need more info here.

What are u sacrificing?