I really need some good advice. My spiritual advisor advised me not to get a divorce
My children are all grown up. Should I really still be sacrificing my happiness for my children?
46-50, F
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updown2020 · 61-69, M
You did your part and stayed until your kids were grown up. If that was I good idea I do not know because staying together the kids also saw that and the affect on you. But now you have to look out for yourself because its your life and whats make's you happy. Do you want to be the person that broke up the marrage well the marrage was broken already you and just ending it and moving on. But things to get ready for do you work do you have your own bank account do you have life insurance do you own the house you are living in. Do not fight over small things the end game is to get out. If you have life insurance you will have to change the benificarire to your estate
Lindie507880 · 46-50, F
I think that is the reason that has kept me in this marriage for so long, at least mostly.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Lindie507880 Well I use to be against divorce but now I am all for it because its whats best for the kids if you stay well they see all that and that can cause damanage to the kids so could leaving but by leaving you get to start fresh a new life.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Lindie507880 You did not answer do you work? because if you do not find a job get your own bank account