Your story reminds me of the scenarios that happened in my family. There's so much social sickness. I'm sorry these are your circumstances. Narcissists almost always will never change. I hope you can make the adjustments you need. 🫂
It is definitely time to move on from that relationship. He does not love you and often people that accuse you randomly of doing things like that or often doing them
I am so sorry to hear that. Have you tried marriage counseling? If that doesn't work, you have to start moving forward and build a better life for yourself.
Yeah he's the type of person who seems very greedy and emotionally cold. He needs a lot of therapy in my opinion. I wonder what was his upbringing? Spoiled and pampered as a child or were his parents cold and selfish too? If either of these is true then he'll be hard to change. Just my thoughts. I hope you can set him down when he is no longer acting like a big baby and get to the bottom of his emotional abuse towards you because that is what this is, abuse. Btw, I've been there and I left.
I've never been married but I left my narcissistic sociopathic princess-mode second ex 6 years ago and have been single since with no interest in dealing with people who think life is all about them and nobody else.
My 7 y/o daughter's care, welfare and parenting are more important that any relationship will ever be and I couldn't be the best dad I can for her if I still lived in a toxic relationship with her mum. I'm better off being single.
@zonavar68 Well said! Focus on your daughter for the next 5 years, because after that, she will begin her migratory journey away from you. All girls do migrate away from their biological father at that age because we are biologically predisposed to doing that as females. Not so if you're not her biological father, however.
Don't take offense when this eventually happens! It's nothing personal!
You know how i feel, you know what I'd say. Pretty much what other's have advised you. You should be happy and with someone that values you and your time together. Now, get it done!🤗🤗❤🤗🤗🙏✨💫 -Kelly.
@Lilliesandlight good for both of you i drank a lot years ago but quit over 20 years ago i would get jealous real easy and say things like he does only it was truthful in my case
I'm no marriage counselor. Surprise! But you should not have to put up with that. You can't let other people walk all over you. Unfortunately it's your spouse. Have you considered marriage counseling and/or separation? Maybe think about it.
@pancakeslam Yeah, you're right. I've got very little experience as a therapist, and none of it in a professional capacity. So I shouldn't have said that.
There differences in every marriage think of reasons to stay married think with an open mind then think why you should leave if leaving think about what you will do and make an excape plan in other words cover you own ass your still young .