So tired of being married to a narcissist

He didn't get what he wanted last night and he immediately accused me of cheating on him. And today is punishment. Silent treatment, anger and attitude. He's going out of his way to make me feel unwanted.

I couldn't bring myself to let him use me. He makes my skin crawl.

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pancakeslam · 41-45, M

I'm no marriage counselor. Surprise! But you should not have to put up with that. You can't let other people walk all over you. Unfortunately it's your spouse. Have you considered marriage counseling and/or separation? Maybe think about it.

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@pancakeslam we tried counseling once. Did no good.

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@Lilliesandlight Time to divorce him, then.

pancakeslam · 41-45, M

@LordShadowfire based on the little she has told us we cannot tell her what to do. she has to come to it on her own.

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@pancakeslam Yeah, you're right. I've got very little experience as a therapist, and none of it in a professional capacity. So I shouldn't have said that.

pancakeslam · 41-45, M

@LordShadowfire no worries. it's too bad she seems to have nowhere else to turn.

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

@Lilliesandlight so did we in 15 min he said get a divorce we did 7 years later