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So tired of being married to a narcissist

He didn't get what he wanted last night and he immediately accused me of cheating on him. And today is punishment. Silent treatment, anger and attitude. He's going out of his way to make me feel unwanted.

I couldn't bring myself to let him use me. He makes my skin crawl.
Ontheroad · M
Maybe it's time to give up, stop trying and move on... I know it isn't easy, but maybe it's the best thing to do.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
He sounds worse than my wife. 😂

He needs to grow up.
SW-User
They never change get out and get your life and peace back
Blondily · F
Yeah he's the type of person who seems very greedy and emotionally cold. He needs a lot of therapy in my opinion. I wonder what was his upbringing? Spoiled and pampered as a child or were his parents cold and selfish too?
If either of these is true then he'll be hard to change. Just my thoughts. I hope you can set him down when he is no longer acting like a big baby and get to the bottom of his emotional abuse towards you because that is what this is, abuse. Btw, I've been there and I left.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Blondily he's always b been like this. He used to be worse
Blondily · F
@Lilliesandlight I hope he gets therapy or you decide to leave.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I've never been married but I left my narcissistic sociopathic princess-mode second ex 6 years ago and have been single since with no interest in dealing with people who think life is all about them and nobody else.

My 7 y/o daughter's care, welfare and parenting are more important that any relationship will ever be and I couldn't be the best dad I can for her if I still lived in a toxic relationship with her mum. I'm better off being single.
SandWitch · 26-30, F
@zonavar68
Well said! Focus on your daughter for the next 5 years, because after that, she will begin her migratory journey away from you. All girls do migrate away from their biological father at that age because we are biologically predisposed to doing that as females. Not so if you're not her biological father, however.

Don't take offense when this eventually happens! It's nothing personal!
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@zonavar68 very wise
Sounds like a 5 year old in a grown man’s body. Hope you’re able to make the changes necessary to move forward without this toxicity in your life.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
There differences in every marriage think of reasons to stay married think with an open mind then think why you should leave if leaving think about what you will do and make an excape plan in other words cover you own ass your still young .
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
It is definitely time to move on from that relationship. He does not love you and often people that accuse you randomly of doing things like that or often doing them
themselves
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
That is so sad.
Sorry to hear. That is terrible.

It must be so difficult to go through this.

Find your peace.
Very important for your overall well being.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
I am so sorry to hear that. Have you tried marriage counseling? If that doesn't work, you have to start moving forward and build a better life for yourself.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Divorce is a daunting task, but life on the other side is incredible.

Free yourself. Life is short. Happiness is waiting for you.
Sorry you are treated that way.
Your story reminds me of the scenarios that happened in my family. There's so much social sickness. I'm sorry these are your circumstances. Narcissists almost always will never change. I hope you can make the adjustments you need. 🫂
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@PhoenixPhail 🫂thank you
Selah ·
You need a strategic exit plan.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
Have you ever cheated on him ? my spouse accused me all the time years ago but truth was it was her cheating on me and more than once
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@olderuncle944 no he doesn't
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@Lilliesandlight good for both of you i drank a lot years ago but quit over 20 years ago i would get jealous real easy and say things like he does only it was truthful in my case
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
I do know what your experiencing the longer you wait the worse it will get
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Sorry to hear. Hope you will be ok.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Damn sorry to hear that
SJones48 · 41-45, M
Sorry to hear that
DTMF!!! While you can!
Montanaman · M
You know how i feel, you know what I'd say.
Pretty much what other's have advised you.
You should be happy and with someone that values you and your time together.
Now, get it done!🤗🤗❤🤗🤗🙏✨💫
-Kelly.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Montanaman thanks friend 🧡
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
🫂🫂❤
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
first step call a lawyer. I dont know what state your in but every state is different
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Them wouldnt his ignoring you and silent treatment be a bonus??😷
SW-User
Divorce him and take half

To the left to the left
Coldplay · 61-69, M
No excuse for treatment like this.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Think how he must feel. So lonely.
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
I'm no marriage counselor. Surprise! But you should not have to put up with that. You can't let other people walk all over you. Unfortunately it's your spouse. Have you considered marriage counseling and/or separation? Maybe think about it.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@pancakeslam Yeah, you're right. I've got very little experience as a therapist, and none of it in a professional capacity. So I shouldn't have said that.
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@LordShadowfire no worries. it's too bad she seems to have nowhere else to turn.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
@Lilliesandlight so did we in 15 min he said get a divorce we did 7 years later
justanothername · 51-55, M
So why stay with him?
Divorce? At this point
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
How really sad
Bang5luts · M
Maybe he's accusing you because he would cheat on him if he were you. If that makes twisted sense?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am so sorry. I completely understand why it’s like being with a narcissist. I also get why it’s also not so easy to leave.

I do hope you can find your peace 🩷.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@iamonfire696 thank you 🫂
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Sounds like it's time for the big D, and I don't mean Dallas.
SandWitch · 26-30, F
I think you need a girl's week away! Works wonders for the soul!
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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@SW-User My God. There's more broken relationships on this website than healthy ones, aren't there?

 
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