DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
That would require to have a spouse in the first place. Can honestly say that never happened with me and a girlfriend either way though.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Define cheating. Individuals can have varying definitions; particularly between genders. I had a very open attitude towards sex but my wife did not. I honored her wishes and stopped trying to talk her into being shared (which was my interest) and never had sex with another woman while she was alive (which wasn't my objective anyway). But when the naughty chatrooms came along, I began exploring my fantasies up to and including cybersex -- but always made clear to my chat partners that it was only fantasy, would never go further, and also discussed what I was doing with my wife so I wasn't going behind her back. If she had any reservations about it, she never said anything. In fact, we wound up meeting five of my chat-friends as a couple and she actually liked four of the five.
After I lost her to cancer, I had a subsequent partner. In discussing our fantasies, I brought up the sharing her fantasy and she said one of her fantasies always had been to be in a MFM threesome but she never trusted her partners to not use it as justification to go straying. I assured her that was not my objective, and she trusted me. So we had a few MFM experiences together, but I never cheated on her.
I realize those definitions do not work for all; probably not even most. But they worked for us. To me, it is more about trust and not doing something behind your partner's back than the sex, or whatever it may be.
After I lost her to cancer, I had a subsequent partner. In discussing our fantasies, I brought up the sharing her fantasy and she said one of her fantasies always had been to be in a MFM threesome but she never trusted her partners to not use it as justification to go straying. I assured her that was not my objective, and she trusted me. So we had a few MFM experiences together, but I never cheated on her.
I realize those definitions do not work for all; probably not even most. But they worked for us. To me, it is more about trust and not doing something behind your partner's back than the sex, or whatever it may be.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
I share my husband with my wife
calicuz · 56-60, M
exexec · 70-79, C
My wife did all of her cheating on me when we were dating, but no cheating after we became engaged.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@exexec mmm
Areebah · 46-50, F
Yes a few times.. did i regret- yes.
DragonFruit · 70-79, M
No, I've never cheated on anyone I was in a relationship with.
MellyMel22 · F
Never married, but never cheated on anyone.
jackrabbit10 · M
I never considered it cheating, to me it was a learning lesson, and helping other girls that need attention,
ForestGnome · 46-50, F
I did, yes, 15 years ago. Biggest regret.
Katie01 · F
Never been married but I've cheated on every partner I've ever had
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
When I had partners - no never.
I've never been married though.
I've never been married though.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Never been married but I have always cheated.
greensnacks · F
I'm not interested in cheating. And I have no spouse
But I wouldn't.
But I wouldn't.
peterlee · M
Relationships involve multiple people. A family, children. Building bridges and sustaining them is the key.
Cheating is destructive. Tempting, but has consequences.
Cheating is destructive. Tempting, but has consequences.
Bleak · 36-40, F
I always find cheating a disgusting act; sort of a heinous crime.
lissah · 36-40, F
When i was married...no
beermeplease · M
never been married. but i've had relationships/flings with more than one married woman...probably why i have trust issues today
exexec · 70-79, C
No. She is my one and only.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
We weren't divorced, but very much not in love/together anymore when I met someone else enthralled with me. It didn't feel like cheating in my heart.
DanielsASJ · 36-40, M
No spouse No cheating
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Never have I ever
jackrabbit10 · M
@Donotfolowme well guess we won't be doing no talking.
Ferric67 · M
I don’t have one, nor was I ever married
Ducky · 31-35, F
I’m in an open marriage and some would call that cheating since I’m a romantic relationship with someone other than my spouse. But my definition of cheating is doing something that is not agreed upon in your relationship. My spouse supports me and always has, so by that definition, no, I never cheated.
TallBeardedHung · 26-30, M
@Ducky nice
AbbeyRhode · F
Never have, never will.
windwaker · 26-30, F
No, I would never. Any connection I could find anywhere else, physical or emotional, could never be as fulfilling. ❤
TexChik · F
nope
Cassieee · 31-35, F
No - never will either
nope
romell · 51-55, M
It's a question like are you RACIAL.. OBVIOUSLY ANSWER WOULD BE NO
Fawma123 · 51-55, M
Never
Musicman · 61-69, M
Next month will make 36 years for us. During that time the answer is NO!!!
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
Never.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Nope.
HumanEarth · F
Never, not on any partner.
FreestyleArt · 36-40, M
Don't have one.
kittee · 26-30, T
no
Wireman · 31-35, M
Not with another person, no.
TallBeardedHung · 26-30, M
no
No
calicuz · 56-60, M
🤐
Monalisasmith86 · 36-40, F
No
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
Yes it’s hard to resist









































