What do you do when

I would think it sounds they had a really bad day. But I might at least try to offer some concern, even if just to vent about their day. Such is one's job as a spouse.

What can you do???

Disrespecting his wishes and trying to wedge yourself in there regardless could be a sign of abuse.

Most of us can function independently of the other for a few hours at a time, so give him his space and let him come to you as and when he is ready... unless he is showing signs of a mental health crisis and is waving a gun around.

I don't think we have experienced that, but both of us can tell when the other had a rough day and could use some extra TLC or maybe a calming drink.

rarely happens but give him his space and I'll take the guest suite

As he asks. Just so long as he knows I’m there if he wants to talk.

I'm good at giving people their space ...I too require it at times

Give them space, but maybe make something they like and use giving it to them as an excuse to check on them.

Send him to another room and then have a conversation with him tomorrow. Then see talk to a therapist.

Give him space & let him regroup

I feel like that most days.

I look forward to that day. 😬

Respect his wishes and discuss the situation tomorrow.

I would not want a partner like that .

Par-TEE!!! Out to eat at an expensive restaurant, rent a room in a luxury hotel, and watch cable movies ALL night while drinking up the contents of the Mini Bar and ordering room service!

🤣🤣🤣

Sounds like an emotional guy tbh

I give him space

let them go destress on their own

He sounds like an [expletive deleted] drama queen.