How is your marraige ?

Mines good. The hub and I are best friends.

My advice to you is start dating her again. Marriages can become stale if you get into the brother/sister rut after being married for years. Go out of your way to do things together. Talk about how you first met, etc. It could rekindle that old spark again. Take her away for your next anniversary. There are many ways to mend the fences. Do it and get to it. There's still hope.

Fifty year and we have always been true partners in life. (Yes. I know how lucky that is) At times we argued and I didnt always win. But in the end we had thw same life goals, which meant we always faced the same obstacles together..Looking back, I couldnt have done it without her , nor she without me. Now her mind isnt what it was, although so far she is still herself. So I am here with her, steering her and supporting her, as long as I am able..😷

My first marriage was 25 years -happy until she died. Now in my second marriage - 8 years together and she has "moved on". I don't excite her anymore and I feel the love has gone too as we are still civil to each other but she will boil over at the least thing. Hate is not the opposite of love - it is indifference so while we can still be friends we are no longer lovers.
I am coming around to the view that if I am to gain any happiness I will have to move on.
She seems quite content to visit her boyfriend and then come home, while I keep the household running, but it does not sit well with me.

Hello mine was the same way ,,but not picking fights ,, just doing things to get me upset ,, i think her mind was going ,, she no longer wanted me and just wanted to be friends ,,, money wise it was ok cause it would have ben difficult to go alone ,,, mind once i got my boat i left her everything and no debts ,, she is ok now ,,

30 years and going strong. Had our ups and downs but weve stayed together and not because of the kids, wr love each other. Love is in a circular motion. Always changing but always there

Life’s too short to stay where you’re not wanted or appreciated.

Looking at your age group is she going through perimenopause because when i started i was all over the place and in some very dark moods for a while.

I feel your pain brother! If you have kids it makes it more complicated.

As the song says, If We Make It To December.....it will be 48 years.

Married for 24 years to one person ? Which means you have not had an active and Vibrant life.

Psychologically, couples who are married for long, become like sibilings. So you can start looking out for girl friends and get involved with other women. Actually you should convey the same to your wife directly, that you are bored in life, and that you wish to start dating again, and the you would like to free her as well. If she throws tantrums and blames you, just tell her "that's the reason why I wish to free you so you can find someone better than me... and let's both lead the remaining life in a better way. "

24 years isn't bad, time to call it a day and stop making each other unhappy.

Is she near the same age as you?

Man I feel the exact same way !!!

It is pretty shaky but we are working on it

Ask her what she thinks? That’s gonna be your best starting spot and don’t take “nothing” as a proper answer…
Just what you said her say to her… in a softer way of course but THAT will guide you better than any thing other than her says

Duct tape! 😉🤭🤭🤭

Not one to brag but my marriage is fantastic best friends and still loves

We are still doing fine after 40+ years

Why on earth did you get married? What did you share in common then? It is not common for sex to just end. Nor to withdraw affection nor to fight all the time. Has she seen a doctor? For assessment. Do you need to attend counselling? Have you sat down with her and asked her what exactly is going on? Women like to communicate about their feelings? How do you treat her? Do you act with kindness? Or is there a wall of silence between you besides the arguing? Only you know if you want to stay unhappily in a cold marriage. Try talking to her. Make the time. Tell her how you feel about all this. Keep us updated.

This should explain it, been married longer then you

https://similarworlds.com/relationships/marriage/4919506-My-wife-and-I-exhibit-these-qualities-and-are-unlikely-to

"She"? Yep. It's normal.

When your dog barks at you someone else is feeding him

At stake.

If you are Christian sex is for pro-creation not so much recreation.

if she doesn't talk to you she probalby doesn't like you.

Best of luck to you.

My wife and I are more roommates than a married couple. Sex dosen`t exist with us.

If she isn't happy seeing you, there is something wrong. It may be that she seriously doesn't like your way of living or dealing with things that she just can't stand your sight now.
Having a good long chat where you are just listening would help find out the reasons.
In the end, you can remind her of your good old days and what can bring them back.

I hope you didn't actually tell her she seems "dried up"...if you did, that might explain why you ain't getting any, vato.😆