How is your marraige ?

I have been married for 24 yrs
When i got married to her our pastor asked me if im sure i want to get married to her cause we are completely different in every way

Conversation and sex has dried up and a person can tell that she doesnt like me anymore....not even happy to see me or anything.......is this normal ?

She tends to blame me or want to pick a fight randomly

I heard from someone if a women still fight with you she still cares for you ......but i can physically see she has dried up towards me

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seaglass · F

Is she near the same age as you?

wudifu · 46-50, M

@seaglass 3 yrs older

seaglass · F

@wudifu Consider the stresses of peri-menopause and menopause. It's a rough time in a woman's life. A lot of marriages fall apart around this time. It's no coincidence. Maybe read up on it a bit. It's very possible you shouldn't be taking her behavior personally, even if she doesn't realize what's happening. I hope you two will make it through

wudifu · 46-50, M

@seaglass thank you very much.....she is going through it....will do a read up