How is your marraige ?

I have been married for 24 yrs
When i got married to her our pastor asked me if im sure i want to get married to her cause we are completely different in every way

Conversation and sex has dried up and a person can tell that she doesnt like me anymore....not even happy to see me or anything.......is this normal ?

She tends to blame me or want to pick a fight randomly

I heard from someone if a women still fight with you she still cares for you ......but i can physically see she has dried up towards me

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Why on earth did you get married? What did you share in common then? It is not common for sex to just end. Nor to withdraw affection nor to fight all the time. Has she seen a doctor? For assessment. Do you need to attend counselling? Have you sat down with her and asked her what exactly is going on? Women like to communicate about their feelings? How do you treat her? Do you act with kindness? Or is there a wall of silence between you besides the arguing? Only you know if you want to stay unhappily in a cold marriage. Try talking to her. Make the time. Tell her how you feel about all this. Keep us updated.

wudifu · 46-50, M

@PoetryNEmotion thank you