How is your marraige ?

I have been married for 24 yrs
When i got married to her our pastor asked me if im sure i want to get married to her cause we are completely different in every way

Conversation and sex has dried up and a person can tell that she doesnt like me anymore....not even happy to see me or anything.......is this normal ?

She tends to blame me or want to pick a fight randomly

I heard from someone if a women still fight with you she still cares for you ......but i can physically see she has dried up towards me

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Maturebate · 70-79, M

My first marriage was 25 years -happy until she died. Now in my second marriage - 8 years together and she has "moved on". I don't excite her anymore and I feel the love has gone too as we are still civil to each other but she will boil over at the least thing. Hate is not the opposite of love - it is indifference so while we can still be friends we are no longer lovers.
I am coming around to the view that if I am to gain any happiness I will have to move on.
She seems quite content to visit her boyfriend and then come home, while I keep the household running, but it does not sit well with me.

sree251 · 41-45, M

@Maturebate

She seems quite content to visit her boyfriend and then come home, while I keep the household running, but it does not sit well with me.

Do you need her for anything?