How is your marraige ?

I have been married for 24 yrs
When i got married to her our pastor asked me if im sure i want to get married to her cause we are completely different in every way

Conversation and sex has dried up and a person can tell that she doesnt like me anymore....not even happy to see me or anything.......is this normal ?

She tends to blame me or want to pick a fight randomly

I heard from someone if a women still fight with you she still cares for you ......but i can physically see she has dried up towards me

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in10RjFox · M

Married for 24 years to one person ? Which means you have not had an active and Vibrant life.

Psychologically, couples who are married for long, become like sibilings. So you can start looking out for girl friends and get involved with other women. Actually you should convey the same to your wife directly, that you are bored in life, and that you wish to start dating again, and the you would like to free her as well. If she throws tantrums and blames you, just tell her "that's the reason why I wish to free you so you can find someone better than me... and let's both lead the remaining life in a better way. "

wudifu · 46-50, M

@in10RjFox thans for your input