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16 years old dating a 24 year old?

I am much older now..kinda 18, but a while ago when I was 16, I had dated a guy that was 24...Now it was all sweet and the relationship did last about a year. In the time we were dating, we recieved MANY rude comments. I would like to ask what everybody's opinion is on this. Is Age really a number???
Diesel95 · 36-40, MVIP Best Comment
My last relationship was with a chick 11 years younger than me and while age is just a number in my case I learned it is really hard to maintain a relationship like that cuz you are at 2 very different stages in life
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@Greenbare: Accept that the hips are not fully grown until about 18 making childbirth riskier. Unless I am misinformed. I don't believe you last sentence is true at all.
Michaela · 26-30, F
@MarsSword: genes can definitely affect the growth of your hips! Along with puberty! Some can start puberty at a young age therefor are typically developed at the age of 14-17! Some can start later which which prolonged the time they become fully developed! Race also does play a factor! Hispanics and African Americans maybe middle easterns, the hips would be developed way faster than Caucasians and Asians! I don't truly believe at 18 you are fully developed since every woman is different! They may be fully developed maybe earlier than 18 or later!

Kinda 18
What does this mean? Never heard of this age before. You mean you are 17 but almost 18?

Is Age really a number???

Yes, it is. It is defined as the number of complete revolutions of one's home planet about its central star from one's birth until the time of interest. (Here, the planet is Earth/Sol III, star is the Sun/Sol, and a revolution is referred to as a year.)
Faust76 · 46-50, M
Even though there was no mention of sexual activity, the age of consent in UK, Canada and many US states is 16, so even that would seem legal (though not advisable) in most cases. It's interesting to contrast the response to recent question if 9 years is too much difference when the other person was 20... Though, the "rule of thumb" of half your age plus 7 suggests that 24 years should stick to 19 or older to keep it non-creepy. People making 18 a sticking point is also bit... ehh.

People mature at different rates, but 18 has been given special significance as the "average" because, well, let's face it everybody wants to believe they're the special case. What I mean to say in particular though is, not every 18 year old is ready to date whatever age they want. In fact, I would say that up until they've finished whatever education they're going for (Under no duress), people shouldn't date way out of their age- or life-situation category for variety of reasons. I realize in the real life this is little idealistic; however, to answer the question, in general terms "age is just a number" only once both parties have finished their desired education.
Michaela · 26-30, F
True. You can tell yourself to stick to your age range but personally when I am attracted to men older than me as in 20's to mid 20's. I guess you can choose to wait after you've completed your education
BeachBum · F
16 is the age of consent for females in my country.
Some 16 Year olds are more mature, kind and pleasant natured than 40+ people.

24 is still witin the "youth" age bracket. If you were 18 and he 26, it's still only 8 years.

So long as you're not breaking any laws, are happy and safe with the person...that is all that matters.

People are always going to judge others.
Michaela · 26-30, F
16 is the age of consent so what we were doing wasn't illegal per say it's just some people's view were just clouded to think he was abusing me or something. No laws were broken and we didnt engage in sex.
ValoranHuntress · 26-30, F
@Michaela: I wouldn't think it was abuse or anything like that. I just find it odd. I don't understand why a 24 year old would want a relationship with a 16 year old. He's in a totally different phase in his life. Baffles me. :o
Michaela · 26-30, F
@ValoranHuntress: He in particular didn't care much. We had hung out a couple times at a party which is where we intially got atracted to each other. I was a bit hesitant as well due to the age but I later got comfortable with it. I definetly wasn't "weird" or "awkward". We both truly enjoyed ourselves and the time we spent togehter.
SW-User
No. Not that I think there is necessarily anything wrong with 16/24 -however life experience differences should be vast. One is still a child, the other a young adult
Michaela · 26-30, F
Our relationship was good though...
SW-User
@Michaela: That's good :-)
SW-User
It's only a number when youre 18.
Michaela · 26-30, F
Oh ok!
Psnyder69 · 56-60, M
Yeah when you're 24 and dating a minor. I understand your side it's his side I don't get and sends up a lot of RED FLAGS
Michaela · 26-30, F
Oh thats a good point. There is no denying that some men are preditors of young girls...but its not for every guy out there.
Psnyder69 · 56-60, M
True, but better to wait until they're 18. I get it love is love but 16 to 24 too weird. I'm not saying that I would've turned down an older teacher when I was 16. Or even my friends mom.
SummerDream · 31-35, F
everybody is different mentally and physically.. setting age restrictions is more about being practicable then being true to the individual
SW-User
don't care as long as you know you are not getting used for sex
tynamite · 31-35, M
All women are used for sex
SW-User
@tynamite: LOL, you just have to come and reveal thee TRUTH...
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sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
lmfao! oh please.

and was she a child?


and listen to this garbage.. 'back when'. if i got a dollar every time someone thinks 'the old days' were better....

you go on with that nonsense.
Michaela · 26-30, F
@sighmeupforthat: the old days arent very old for me as to you since you're what 36-40...
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I know that is just weird! What a loser.
tynamite · 31-35, M
It's legal in the UK
Michaela · 26-30, F
It's legal in Canada.
Where I live, a 16 year old is a minor. So at best he was an adult fooling around with an under age girl and could've ended up in jail.
hlpflwthat · M
@Psnyder69: If you're actually at all fascinated by the truth, most of the US is like Kentucky. 31 US states use 16 as age of consent. Not sure why you're giving this young woman so much grief for her honesty.
hlpflwthat · M
hlpflwthat · M
Gahh - didn't get the key. Blue are 16, Brown 17 & Green 18.
You're not 18 yet ?

 
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