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16 years old dating a 24 year old?

I am much older now..kinda 18, but a while ago when I was 16, I had dated a guy that was 24...Now it was all sweet and the relationship did last about a year. In the time we were dating, we recieved MANY rude comments. I would like to ask what everybody's opinion is on this. Is Age really a number???
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Faust76 · 46-50, M
Even though there was no mention of sexual activity, the age of consent in UK, Canada and many US states is 16, so even that would seem legal (though not advisable) in most cases. It's interesting to contrast the response to recent question if 9 years is too much difference when the other person was 20... Though, the "rule of thumb" of half your age plus 7 suggests that 24 years should stick to 19 or older to keep it non-creepy. People making 18 a sticking point is also bit... ehh.

People mature at different rates, but 18 has been given special significance as the "average" because, well, let's face it everybody wants to believe they're the special case. What I mean to say in particular though is, not every 18 year old is ready to date whatever age they want. In fact, I would say that up until they've finished whatever education they're going for (Under no duress), people shouldn't date way out of their age- or life-situation category for variety of reasons. I realize in the real life this is little idealistic; however, to answer the question, in general terms "age is just a number" only once both parties have finished their desired education.
Michaela · 22-25, F
True. You can tell yourself to stick to your age range but personally when I am attracted to men older than me as in 20's to mid 20's. I guess you can choose to wait after you've completed your education