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How do you signal your partner when you want sex? And feel offended when turned down?

I think both genders are different. Men are always vocal and or direct but most women are indirect and rarely initiate or advance is that true? And i think the reason they dont is the fear of rejection, is that true?
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MommaBear · 26-30, F
Both Cowboy and I have a very high sex drive we both initiate a lot and I’ve only been turned completely down once because I was too drunk to give proper consent
That being said if one of us are busy we have no issue taking care of it ourselves…
MommaBear · 26-30, F
@Fieldmaster I don’t understand why anyone would be mad about someone taking care of things themselves although my ex husband did get mad about it
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@MommaBear some people take it personally, as if they werent enough etc.
And for them the one the hire drive becomes just needy, all that person is sex sex etc.
romell · 51-55, M
@MommaBear exactly
exexec · 70-79, C
During most of our married life, we had sex on a regular schedule, so no hints were needed. Occasionally, one of us had a special need. If my wife came home horny after a night out with friends, she would strip naked and climb in bed or sit on my lap. If I was the one with the special need, I asked, "You wanna fool around?" I don't recall either of us ever refusing sex.
@exexec Lol .. nobody like a braggard. ;-)

Would that more relationships were that way. Might improve the divorce rate.
exexec · 70-79, C
@BrandNewMan Or maybe I just don't remember her saying, "Go away." My memory isn't as good as it used to be.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
We have a pro forma that is completed in triplicate. Our service level agreement means that a firm decision has to be made within 24 hours of submission.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@SunshineGirl I suppose there's small print disclosures. 😆
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
Some studies show/ suggest rejection for women vs men is very low..
HumanEarth · F
"So do you wanna?"

Or

"I'm ready"

Like there they forgot what foreplay is 😡😡😡
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@HumanEarth For the you should always go in preheating mode..if he rushes...tell him, honey you got a preheat the oven...otherwise...😂😅🤣
Interpretive dance.

@V00doo O.M.G. !! 🤣
@Fieldmaster virgin?
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@V00doo Who, me? No, lol why?
Generally a charming smile and a raised eyebrow ensure the message is received.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
You don't have a woman do you?
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@Infamous607 No, i do not.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@Fieldmaster Not trying to ridicule you for that. I don't have a woman either. .
But maybe your ideas are somewhat on the top bias side. Not the good side tho.
Btw Not true yo both the questions you ask.
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My husband always gets someone to have sex with me regardless .
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@Lyndawifeandmom oh, how does that work?
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MasterLee · 56-60, M
Finger snap and point
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@BrandNewMan 100%. No issues.
@MasterLee If you can bottle and sell that .. $$ would flow like a river
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@BrandNewMan simple training
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The way some females play power games around that topic make politicians look like kindergartners
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@BrandNewMan you think so?
@Fieldmaster Yes. Some women use sex and/ or withholding of it, to manipulate and control. There are studies on the impact on relationships and everything.
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M


Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@JoyfulSilence please help me understand, i dont get these.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Fieldmaster semaphore flags. 🙃 ...

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
@Fieldmaster

I spelled out S E X in semaphore.
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