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Why are younger men attracted to us old birds?

Ryansgrampy · 80-89, M
I have always been attracted to older women since I was taught everything I need to know at 11 by a 40 year old lady. Now that I am 81 finding an older woman is getting tough.
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 at least you're still winging it...I drink Red Bull and still have no wiiings
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@atlantic59 I've also never felt the high-level sensual attention of the 'wing girl method' or had 'wingmen' looking out for me since I really don't go out socialising.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
@zonavar68 Every man should have an older teacher.
CestManan · 46-50, F
Young men are attracted to anything. They are not picky.
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496sbc · 36-40, M
@CestManan lies all lies
@CestManan best answer
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
Because us women their age don’t like inexperience lol
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
HA HA.... You're an 'old bird?'..... I'm 70+ and I'm attracted to 80 year olds! Why? (again, HA HA) I don't know! I think it's just the feeling that they need someone to cuddle them and (most ) of them don't have anyone.
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@JollyRoger you probably really know how to pick the good the good cuddlers too!
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
do you ever drive through the seniors home parking lot, and roll down your window and give them a good line and the next thing you know, you are both just screaming down the highway, stereo cranked, windows open and everything is how it should be, or how you remember, or imagine you remember, -cause life was complicated back then...but if I had a car or a van and a good senior seat set-up, I would love that cuddle too
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@atlantic59 When people need physical contact - they do cuddle well.
Don't get me wrong... I'm not taking 'advantage' of them... I stop when they stop.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Either that or it's a patriotic cult begun by Benjamin Franklin known by various names: Milf Hunting, Gramma Pumping, and more recently, Hag Maxing.🤣 (just did a little gen z research those guys are really out there!) Wonder if the lesser misfires are catching a clue.



Why back in my day the eggs got past their sell by date, and even now, still be used for baking. The guys with big hands and futz not tall enough to tempt crusty krissy to bang under the bleachers in HS, we all still needed our lemon squeeze to not drive in a redford for a rosie palm.


Oh I guess there's always gonna be a few bathroom at home 4 eyed mommy underwear sniffers, but they preferred good grades to a safe cover story.


(Lots of cooler than hot mamas love to visit the store. Especially Mids, spark up a doob to get their eggs scrambled in the back of a van.)

And it still pays to study well the real US history that those pole cats in gubmint won't let the teachers teach. Here's some advice from a historical old revolution dude.

In all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:

1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
--Benjamin Franklin *in a letter to a friend.
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Plus they're grateful. You get your lines flushed, treated with the respect due a man, and shown appreciation with a farewell gift snack pack.
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Nothing wrong with that I know of.
Blondily · F
Money, sex, and most likey they arent attractive to younger women lol
justlooking2023 · 56-60, M
@Blondily Maybe the feathers tickle their privates? lol
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Older women will do more for younger men. There’s a raw energy between them. I can’t explain it. That part of my life is over now but when it was happening it was fun. In college I was in the shower when my “gf” showed up to drive me to school… I was 19 and she was 34. My friend answered the door and and called out… hey man your moms here to pick you up… he was joking.. I tried not to laugh.
Laziness.. old birds don't run as fast
Northwest · M
Assuming they're not looking to have kids. Listed in random order:

1. Looking for a sugar mommy.

2. Find women their age immature, but chances are women their age are more mature.

3. Think women past a certain age, will be thankful.

4. Think that women past a certain age will be easier to control.

5. Think that women past a certain age will be more open to any perversion that's thrown at them.
@Northwest Guessing that's probably true.
As it happens, I've never had a younger man show interest in me, (only older,) so I think it must be pretty rare, or else the older woman is putting out obvious availability signals such as flirty eyes or actively engaging the young man in flirtatious conversation.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Confidence, attitude & experience!!
Katiatavrovich · 31-35, F
because experience attracts😈
edtur61 · 61-69, M
Experience counts.
They need their mama!
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Lots of guys have a fascination with mommy. Their first love, their forever love. Some sniff moms panties and get off on it.
Now you, another kids mom, can fill that gap. Teach then how to use those tools they carry around.
Nunki · 31-35, F
There’s an Italian series on Netflix about an affair between a woman in her 60s and a guy in his 30s called Deceitful Love. Sooo cringe I couldn’t watch more than one episode
twistedrope · 26-30, M
There's no simple answer to this. The body wants and the heart wants.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@twistedrope It isn;t the heart that wants it.

A h4rd-on has no conscience.
twistedrope · 26-30, M
@CestManan Mens hearts are linked to their dicks. Otherwise depression and heartbreak wouldn't be such a boner killer.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@twistedrope You got a point.

I think young men though will go after anyone who might have them. I imagine they would prefer women their own age but since they give the men such a run-around, they hope older women won't.

Interesting though that older men do not like women their own age.
Madmonk · M
Women their own age don’t want them. Figure an older woman will have lower standards.
lwshm64 · 56-60, F
@Madmonk absolutely not
Madmonk · M
@lwshm64 male logic is flawed when it comes to their counterparts
Madmonk · M
@lwshm64 male logic is flawed when it comes to their counterparts
dumasme · 51-55, M
Have you looked in the mirror? You are a beautiful and attractive woman. Why wouldn't any man be attracted to you?
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
I don't know but more than half my female friends are below 30. My best friend is 27, met her in Colombia but she's Ukranian. My ex that I was with for 5 years and we seperated a few months ago is 25. my other favorite person is a 25 year old lesbian. I get along super well with younger girls. I'm like a young person but wiser and with an older body although I am in better shape than most of my young friends. after a trek in a canyon in Peru I had to carry my GF up the stairs of our hotel for 4 days because her legs hurt too much.
SalttyDawg · 70-79, M
I remember when I was in my 20’s I preferred being with women in their 30’s and 40’s 😁
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@SalttyDawg I remember anytime being into any woman who looked at me and saw me
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@atlantic59 True.
Domking · 61-69, M
In adolescent days, as compared to the undecided,chattering classmates, the teacher or neighbourhood Mrs Robinson appeared to be a more complete package, and they exuded experience & energy. And that persists in later years,too.
And like me, who had an indulgent mentor, (who deliberately went around half-dressed in my presence, with a meaningful look in her eyes, and allowed some playful wrestling as a way to explore) - they have a debt of gratitude.
Just my two cents. 💜😃
Most of my partners have been older, but it just kind of worked out that way. I never was specifically looking for someone older.
Because we're more voluptuous body-wise and sexually experienced. Either that or they have a mommy complex. 😂
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@MsSwan plus your smart assness keeps us off guard and in check
Sapio · 51-55, M
I read somewhere once that a woman's maturity level is 5 years senior to a man of the same age. That means a woman who 20 is equivalent in maturity to man who is 25. But what we are talking about here is a whole different ballgame.

I think a younger man who seeks an older woman does so because the relationship is straight to the point. Both he and she know what he's going there for, no muss, no fuss. However, the younger man could also seek an older woman for financial reasons and purposes.
acpguy · C
Just because you are old doesn't mean you do not look good. My husband still likes to see me naked.
Truth is, a horny 20 year-old will **** anything as long as it is easy and doesn't cost any money.
Perhaps we appreciate the way you old “ birds” Have the ability to spread your wings and fly!
Hiyall1t1me · 41-45, M
Perhaps with the right person!
Hiyall1t1me · 41-45, M
@Hiyall1t1me oh wait… I’m probably too old for this question!
Asianpersuasion · 36-40, M
Hiyall1t1me · 41-45, M
@Asianpersuasion possible I misread the question though!
Lol.....
And we thought it was you who's interested in younger guy
Katiatavrovich · 31-35, F
@Royricky09 both actually
DesiDudeJ04 · 26-30, M
Because old ones are good in cooking and wisdom sharing
Sepia · 36-40, F
They like money and the mommy treatment.
Pfuzylogic · M
@Sepia And really good tea. ☺
you don't get your feathers ruffled easily
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@bob01 I'll bet that's a big one
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
as I gasp for breathe, I say, you are not older, just sweeter...
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Some. Not that many percentage wise. Less chance of being tricked into being dragged into a paternity case. More willing to have seks without it getting used as a control over them. Sometimes they get free stuff. Meals, use of a car. Not much chances of being nagged into tying the knot and less drama after things go south.
Because young women are giving them a hard time.
SWUser123987 · 51-55, M
I find you attractive. ;). I am a younger man
Wylder187 · 41-45, M
Thee obvious answer is experience IMO
tactical360 · 56-60, M
Sometimes it's looks, sometimes it's maturity. There could be any number of reasons. For me, personally, I like an older lady for her maturity. With an older lady, the guy (if he's mature enough) doesn't have to deal with the late teen - early twenties mentality.
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
I'm attracted to you and I ain't young. I actually had to enlist a young guy to wave at you. You are just universally hot and you have to accept that everyone is attracted to you. I was like that 30 years ago, before they removed part of my penis to fill my frontal lobe cavity
Fairydust · F
I don’t get it lol, 😂
bookerdana · M
@Fairydust When you're 17 or so a woman ,say 30 45 seems good looking ,confident ...we all need to out grow things
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Can't speak for younger men, but in general I have found that women don't fully embrace their sexuality, stop playing games, and gain self-confidence until around 40 when the pressures of playing the multi-roles society forces on them slackens.
beaglehunter · 70-79, M
experence👅
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@beaglehunter and they know where the car keys are
eastcoastcycler · 56-60, M
You can’t get pregnant???
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Define 'younger' in your context? 5 yrs? 10 yrs? 20 yrs? More?

Younger women don't go for us mature men unless we have lots of money. 8-) I don't, so I'm 'marked safe' from the gold diggers.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@zonavar68 I think by "younger men" she means college age men who have raging h4rd-ons.
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
🤔............Money?
Rokan · 31-35, M
If i had to guess i would say its because they can have fun without a realistic expectation of a relationship that usually comes with that fun.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
Older women tend to be more experienced.
When I was 28/29 I was dating a 42 year old and shagging a 50 year old.
They were both fantastic in bed.
lwshm64 · 56-60, F
This day and age they do not want to work and think we are going to take care of them. For me NOT IN THIS LIFETIME
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in10RjFox · M
Because girls their age won't be fully developed.. MILFs have more substance and easily approachable.

 
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