Well, since you asked, I will stick my head in the lions mouth..There are girls who are fun, (or not fun) and there are potential keepers, who are partners..REAL partners you can respect and who dont play the woman card in the relationship..
My wife made me a better person, by being a better person I had to live up to and she says I did the same for her. 50 years on she forgets a lot and it frustrates her (and me at times) But no one can take away what we built together.. And you want a man who sees that in you..😷

Do you want to settle down??

I'm really not one to judge and, hey, my track record is pretty...erhhh...thin...in the relationship department.

In a nutshell; Only one boyfriend, ever, who is now my fiancé.

My job - my career - is that where such a thing should really not be achievable, but it has been for us, despite society's views. He's a good man and he sees in me a good woman.

Forget about attracting a partner and think more about attracting good people into your life. Then, the partner will follow when you least expect it.

Sarah 💋

Well dear only you can know...look within.
Let me also point out that there's a whole scale between the good and the bad.
I've had "good" guys who would reject my bad side, and I have had bad boys rejecting my good offerings. We're wholesome beings and we include all aspects...

Well most good ones have given up. We go out we meet someone with the woman doesn't want to give a good man the time of day. So good men are like what's the point of wasting the effort. And in your age bracket it's really difficult. The good ones aren't even going out. And you got third of them that do nothing but stay in their parents house playing video games. The ones that are going out are not good for long-term investment. But if you go out with the bad ones and the good ones probably aren't going to want you. You could always try dating outside of your age bracket since the majority of men that are divorced were left by a woman because her friends keep telling her she could do better. Those men are actually normally 80% good men. I wish you the best of luck. But a lot of good men have quit looking I haven't really looked in probably 10 years back then I got married but her friends kept telling her she could do better so I'm divorced but I'm also not looking really I mean if the right one came along I would definitely get married again. Good luck to you.

Just let go of all negativity and longings.
Stay positive. Smile often. Slowly you will notice the change.
Good luck.

Try to fix yourself first.

It would depend on your definition of good.

Do you mean good as in having a good heart. Good intentions. Good solid character. And backbone.

Or do you mean good as in well-monied, dashing in their skinny jeans, gallant when they stand in the Sun singing oh Yee maiden and putting their puddle in the raincoat?

Good is a very broad term. And has many different meanings to different people

Better off alone

Can you describe what a good man like?

This exactly... anyone who has any decency tends to avoid me or chooses someone else. Think i understand some of it though.

I'm in the same boat. Quality men don't look twice at me. I think it's because I'm not a conventionally hot "trophy".

Maybe you are trying to hard.

Look for ones that seem like they care or at least want to be friends with you first.

Idk are you dressing and acting like a flirty tramp instead of a nice girl?