How to attract good partner

I noticed that if I meet good men, they tend to avoid me unlike the toxic men. Sometimes I feel like I'm repelling good ones . Or maybe i haven't met many good ones . I only met few.

Idk what am I doing wrong? Any advice or opinions?

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justanotherone · 51-55, M

Can you describe what a good man like?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@justanotherone loyal, humble, forgivng towards mistakes, kind to animals, caring, supportive towards me,

justanotherone · 51-55, M

@sahi81 These are the usual suspects. Why do you think you repel them?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@justanotherone i have no idea....

justanotherone · 51-55, M

@sahi81 You start a relationship and they break up with you? Or they are the ones you like them but couldn't start to build something?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@justanotherone no, i never been in relationship with anyone good. I only tried friending good ones and getting to know them. I couldn't be around 2 of them due to my own fears when they showed disappointment towards me when i made mistakes, did anything wrong or i didn't live up to their expectations, i avoided them due to fear of them disliking me at that time and another 2 ghosted me.

justanotherone · 51-55, M

@sahi81 I think that your fear is something you should work on a little bit. Also if these are online then do not have high hopes. Talking online is easy and disappearing is even more easier. Also you don't really know someone if you only talk online. This is not the real world.