How to attract good partner

@Bleak means? sry, my native language is not english

@sahi81 no need to apologise. Mine isn’t either.
I meant
Do you want to get married?

@Bleak yes but i am not in rush or think it's necessary

@sahi81 i just wish i have a partner

@sahi81 bingo here is your mistake a good man wants a wife if the man just wants a partner he's wanting to just use you for sex

@dale74 That's why i want to make men clear from start itself, that i don't trust any men to do sex with unless he wants to marry me. I heard of many stories of women getting dumped after men do sex or get her pregnant.

@dale74 I couldn’t agree more with you. That’s the reason I asked this question because according to me, good men don’t take women for granted.

@sahi81 You think marriage is not necessary??

@Bleak I'm not in rush for it since I don't want kids. I just want a partner who is good.... I think I would be happy if he wants to marry.

What is the difference between living together and marriage?

So should I ask him to marry instead of only partnership?

@sahi81 There’s a lot more difference between marriage and live in relationships.
But since you don’t want kids, it could be a problem for him, perhaps. 🤔

@Bleak I heard in western countries men are more open to not having kids

@sahi81 Perhaps 🤔

@Bleak i need to ask western men about it here if it's true or not

if so i am thinking of moving to western country...

@sahi81 Hope you get your answers.

@sahi81 Your life, your choice.

@Bleak I never disagreed with that it is your life and your choice but the whole premise of this whole thread is where the good guys well good guys want a wife and a family they don't want someone to just sleep with for a few months so don't come at me with your life and your choice when I'm trying to give you an explanation of where the good guys are they're looking for quality lifetime partners now if most of you women out there just want to go from one guy to another that's your choice.

@dale74 i want a life-time partner if possible. So i should ask him to marry, if he is good?

@dale74 what if he makes false promises to marry , bad men often do it.

@sahi81 well you do have people who lie both men and women you have to judge them based on the rest of their family and their friends see what kind of people they hang out with get to know them before you start sleeping with them. I mean I dated a woman and before I ever dated her I told her I wanted to have kids we dated for 2 years got married and then she started cheating on me which led to our divorce I found out after the divorce she had had her tubes tied 8 years before we got married never once told me but told me oh I can't wait to have kids with you.

@dale74 she had bad family or friend circle before u married ? I think she is a really bad woman from what u said about her till now

@sahi81 found out later she was the black sheep of her family. They were good people her mom in real estate help find my house. Found me a house way under valued on the market for 350 the last house to sell in my neighborhood was for 610 and it is smaller than mine. Her brother was a hard working welder. She didn't have many friends added up to she had just moved back to the state....

@dale74 how was her relationship with her family?

@sahi81 well that's part of the reason why I figured that to know the family live and learn it's one thing I learned from a mistake I made because her relationship was not good with her family they wanted almost nothing to do with her but hey her family still have me as an adopted child they love me even though I've been divorced from her I get Christmas invites and everything

@dale74 I know a guy who had good father who respects women, but he never learned how to respect women even when his father told him to respect women, he seems to dislike his father.