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How to attract good partner

I noticed that if I meet good men, they tend to avoid me unlike the toxic men. Sometimes I feel like I'm repelling good ones . Or maybe i haven't met many good ones . I only met few.

Idk what am I doing wrong? Any advice or opinions?
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dale74 · M
Well most good ones have given up. We go out we meet someone with the woman doesn't want to give a good man the time of day. So good men are like what's the point of wasting the effort. And in your age bracket it's really difficult. The good ones aren't even going out. And you got third of them that do nothing but stay in their parents house playing video games. The ones that are going out are not good for long-term investment. But if you go out with the bad ones and the good ones probably aren't going to want you. You could always try dating outside of your age bracket since the majority of men that are divorced were left by a woman because her friends keep telling her she could do better. Those men are actually normally 80% good men. I wish you the best of luck. But a lot of good men have quit looking I haven't really looked in probably 10 years back then I got married but her friends kept telling her she could do better so I'm divorced but I'm also not looking really I mean if the right one came along I would definitely get married again. Good luck to you.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@dale74 all this happens to women too. Men leaving them for better options and stuff like that. Maybe shallow ones tend to dare more than normal ones, normal or good ones might be picky. Sry to know about ur experience. It's so scary to date or marry after hearing such things tbh.
dale74 · M
@sahi81 if you look at divorce statistics the cause of divorce 80% of the time it is the woman through a no-fault divorce that means there's no extenuating circumstances just they're tired of the marriage and they want to quit.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@dale74 what are extenuating circumstances? From my personal experience, most women who initiated divorce i saw, had cheater or abusive type husbands.
dale74 · M
@sahi81 when people file for divorce there has to be a reason for the divorce in fidelity abuse irreconcilable differences something for a divorce to be granted. No the majority of the divorces are not done because one person necessarily cheated.

https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men