How to attract good partner

I noticed that if I meet good men, they tend to avoid me unlike the toxic men. Sometimes I feel like I'm repelling good ones . Or maybe i haven't met many good ones . I only met few.

Idk what am I doing wrong? Any advice or opinions?

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Bang5luts · M

Look for ones that seem like they care or at least want to be friends with you first.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Bang5luts nooo , most men who come in my life as friends or like they care, only do that to get my body. I stopped having male friends and also getting close with men whom I don't know anything about. I carefully get to know everything about people before I allow them in my life or hey close to them

Bang5luts · M

@sahi81 how do you get to know them without talking with them?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Bang5luts observing and also talking. Both. 😅. Sry. I mean before wanting to get close to them i do both.