JaylenPerez15 · 22-25, M
Umile · 41-45, F
@JaylenPerez15 Mistakes do happen.
CookieCrumbs · F
Bad is a relative term.
Bad by your standards? Bad by standards of society on what is commitment vs cheating? Only you can decide where you draw the line where "bad" is.
If you knew the person was involved with someone, yet you chose to sleep with them, you have to ask yourself if that violated your personal standards on what is right or wrong.
Bad by your standards? Bad by standards of society on what is commitment vs cheating? Only you can decide where you draw the line where "bad" is.
If you knew the person was involved with someone, yet you chose to sleep with them, you have to ask yourself if that violated your personal standards on what is right or wrong.
SW-User
@CookieCrumbs I’m getting sleepy 😴 what time ya coming over 🤭
antonioio · 70-79, M
@CookieCrumbs it's for any of us to judge ❤️
FreeSpirit1 · F
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Pumpkins please allow me to clarify. Your question is "If Ur single and sleep with someone with a partner...."
As you can tell from the other responses, if you do it deliberately and knowingly..... then basically yes.
IF, on the other hand, they concealed that they had a partner, and presented themselves as single -- THEN you were duped and not to blame, as you thought they were single and available. (Since this is SW, totally avoiding any questions about sex outside of marriage....)
As you can tell from the other responses, if you do it deliberately and knowingly..... then basically yes.
IF, on the other hand, they concealed that they had a partner, and presented themselves as single -- THEN you were duped and not to blame, as you thought they were single and available. (Since this is SW, totally avoiding any questions about sex outside of marriage....)
Motosh72 · 51-55, M
Depends on your agreement. I know a few couples that have open marriages. As long as you’re committed to your spouse, I don’t have a problem with it. In fact, I like hearing the details! 😁
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deadgerbil · 26-30, M
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
No. They made the choice to sleep with you. That’s their problem. If they were being satisfied by their partner, you wouldn’t have had the opportunity. They would’ve said, “No.”
Now, there’s also a fine line. If you intentionally try to break up their relationship, you become more at fault. It’s no longer casual then.
Now, there’s also a fine line. If you intentionally try to break up their relationship, you become more at fault. It’s no longer casual then.
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Nah. Theyre there own person and can make there own decisions. As long as youre not planning to intentionall break them up. But if hes sleeping with ya, there relationship is a loss anyway.
Each person has there own principles, you set your own.
Each person has there own principles, you set your own.
JesseInTX · 51-55, M
All depends on what the agreement is between the person and their partner. And if the person is being honest with you about the agreement.
seaglass · F
Not "just as bad", but not innocent. Many factors could have the level of "bad" on a sliding scale
AbbySvenz · F
Sleeping is fine. It’s going the other stuff where problems might start to arise
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I did just that many years ago in 2003. I didn’t consider myself bad at the time. .
rhouse · 56-60, M
I'm not sure anyone can answer this for you. I think there are some variables like did you sleep with them because they were married and you wanted to hurt their spouse, did you sleep with them knowing they were married but hooked up just for fun, etc.
For me the answer is no but that is only for me.
For me the answer is no but that is only for me.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
No. You didn't make any promises to the partner. The person you're sleeping with is entirely at fault.
Umile · 41-45, F
Nmh.
Maybe even worse.
No judgement.
Just saying.
Maybe even worse.
No judgement.
Just saying.
SW-User
I would definitely say so
antonioio · 70-79, M
Being up on the moral pedisetal can be a lonely place ❤️
Sevendays · M
No, just no.
Lake55 · 13-15, T
Yes
GohantheThird · M
Probably, but it's not my relationship. Not my place to comment on a relationship I'm not a part of.
Generally I like to avoid that sort of thing. It's too big a pain in the a**.
Generally I like to avoid that sort of thing. It's too big a pain in the a**.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Id say not as bad as the person with the partner. You're single lol
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Cheating is what it's called - I'll Be Single Soon but accelerated for the other person and you are labelled as a home-wrecker.
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smiler2012 · 61-69
@Pumpkins 🤔if you know they are attatched and still sleep with them yes morally you are as bad as an opportunist
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
pancakeslam · 46-50, M
I dunno. Lemme try it out then I'll tell you.
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