What puts you off someone?

Talking only about themselves and finding negative in everything.

I met a person some time ago, and by chance we ended up in a car together for a bit. I tried to make conversation with her, asking the usual questions you ask when you've just met someone. She answered readily enough, and talked about stuff in her life. Perfectly normal. It took me a while to realize that at no point did she ask a single question about me. Nada. That rather put me off.

"We vs them" thinking. If someone tries hard to divide people into groups and tries to seed enmity and competition between them.

Cruelty, bigotry, or bullying.

Gossip, self centered and superficial people.

someone whos just interested in talking about themselves and talking over you

Over-sharing or not talking much.. not being able to sync with anothers rythm and either going too heavy/anchored either hysterically fast speaking..
Appearing too busy or unwilling to be where they're at.
Insulting, entitled attitude or overly nice saint like ..
Edges, i used to love them, not for the moment

Showing attitude without any reason

Lack of respect and common decency

drugs

Humble-bragging, arrogance, superiority views, a lot of complaining and a bunch of drama.

When it comes to dating I’m also not attracted to avoidant, submissive personality type guys.

I’m put off by people who are overly polite. I like genuine people.

i keep away from people in general, but i'm particularly put off by dramatic loud mouthed sensational types or overly emotional.

Nervousness after a period of maybe 3 months together.
Going through my things...
Lateness...
Bluntness/rudeness.

If they smoke or unironically call themselves an "influencer" on any social networking platform.

Being needy, lacking confidence, feeling sorry for themselves..

People who create, stir or thrive on drama. Like, why would people actively seek stress and confrontation in their lives? No thanks.

Also, people who overly negative - I can understand some negativity if it's warranted, but if you're a person who can never see the good in anyone/anything, I doubt we'll get on.

I don't like nosey people who ask too many questions and want to know everything. I simply lie to them till I am tired of lying and forget what I said and start to make none sense. I don't need to lie but I don't respect them to give them any correct answer.

Thinking they are better than you

constant negativity

Dating - when i feel they need me to depend on me and solve problems for them. I dont like emotionally weak ones

Friends - when they take more than i can give without getting drained and demand more

I went on a date with a woman who had her thirst trap instagram account name on stickers which she stuck everywhere we went. Mood killer.

Rudeness and being egotistical/cocky. In other words thinking they're better than everyone and being very vocal about it. :( :)

Unpopular but I'd say smoking around me. I don't want to smell like an ashtray and for some I know the smoke would put them in hospital.

Honestly for me it’s someone that thinks to highly of themselves and disrespectful that’s a deal breaker for me

Them treating others poorly. Even if they've been amazing, and kind, and warm to me all night. If they're rude to others then it's a no go.

Pretending to be something they are not in order to make a better impression.

bad manners, rudeness to others, chip on shoulder type of attitude, self absorbed

An absolute stone cold date killer is being rude to the waiting staff

wishy washy people who think they know everything.

Being narrow minded,self centred,

Ignorance, arrogance towards me or others

Lifting leg up and passing wind.

Being too loud and dominating.

Great amazing flirt or a womanizer

Judgmental person.

Bad hygiene 😒

Bad manners

Attitude

Can be many things...i guess it just depends on the severity of the "thing" .... Often though it can just be a general unease,.

Fake people and the toxic ones too especially those who are full of drama or those who create the drama.

BO, dirty clothes, highly opinionated, argumentative, judgemental. Lots of stuff.

I don't have to plan that far out, they're put off me much sooner.

If they expect too much and give very little.

Sloppy dress, foul language, and smoking.

People who are narcissistic I won't tolerate.

Misleading which I avoid them. For now

I dislike arrogance so probably that

Negativity and lying

if they are a know-it-all