@Badunk okay. We can clearly see which head reigns supreme 😅😉

@Friendlyman64 all good things are rare, I'm afraid.

Thank you @Lee124

@indyjoe very much so. Absolutely agree with your definition. However, some are all those but not confident nor comfortable in their own skin and often overlooked. Meaning shy. How would you know if you don't make an effort to get to know them if they don't fit all your listed criteria? How would they still fall within your definition of sexy.

@Lee124 Take my wife for instance...she was very tomboyish growing up and still has some of those traits even today, but she is also lady, classy and feminine (the "girl next door"). She is a kind, sensitive, caring, and loving woman who is not afraid to express herself, get her hands dirty, and can take care of herself when she needs to. She balances those sides almost perfectly. How did I find this out? She was not glamorous or a model/playmate but I found her to be very attractive and pretty so I began striking up brief conversations with her. It was SHE who showed interest first, we talked more in depth and decided to start dating and that is how I learned all of these wonderful things about her and who she was....as our friendship and our relationship took root and began to grow. Basically you can't know until the ice is broken.

@indyjoe yes. Sexy can be a certain appealing feature, but not necessarily the person. Where as the deeper definition would be the person and all her qualities as a whole. Glad you found your sexy.

@TravisTx Sweet of you to say.. Thank you! 🤗

@CluckNorris 🤤 Not just sexy, hot too!!🥰😍

I have very crispy thighs too. @Lee124

@CluckNorris have to have in order to know the kind of crunch you desire

@Mk8155 yes they are. Glad you found yours.

@Lostandconfused good point. Thank you.

@Lostandconfused 🧡

@Lee124 just a women being herself

@Justsimple good point

@Justsimple Natural and hairy - yes please!

@Beatbox34 attractive as in looks, behaviour or both?

@Lee124 I'd prefer to be with someone who's sexy from within.

By that I mean who has a beautiful personality.

I say this explicitly because looks fade with age and someone who's gonna look for a "good looking" person is shallow but a person with a wonderful personality never grows old.

@Beatbox34 I hear you. Thank you

@Lee124 Being me. *ahem* Actually, are we talking men or women? I don't think it's quite the same, although many elements are expected in both. For women, I was just thinking keeping an air of mystery - or perhaps mystique is better word as nobody wants to be dealt with evasively. In men's case women seem to want our whole life story, which I'm not sure is advantageous, though there'd never be enough time anyway.

But since the question is more general in nature... Despite how chauvinistic it sound these days, I'd still go with the old "Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets". A guy, occasionally, has the be the opposite.

@Faust76 I do prefer a gentleman in the street and freak in the sheets myself lol. I get your point. Thank you

@Lee124 No time for a book, haha. "occasionally" though. I tried to find source for the quote, but actually found It sounds catchy, but let's be honest it's not strictly true. And first of all, for the book one has to define "gentleman" and "freak" etc. these are not the same for everybody.

But everybody more or less loves a bit of the "bad boy", that's just how the culture is wired with elegant, nurturing, soft, feminine and powerful, confident, hard, masculine. (Generalizations are just that, of course) Just how much "bad boy" people end up with in their interpersonal relationship varies.

@SW-User 😅

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout a great attitude can be sexy as all hell.

@Justenjoyit and you'd want her to leave you alone? How's that sexy?

@Lee124 I drink quick😉

@Justenjoyit 🤣🤣👍

@strongbow yes we are.