Men, in your honest opinion, could you please define sexy?

@Faust76 okay, what makes you sexy?

@Lee124 Being me. *ahem* Actually, are we talking men or women? I don't think it's quite the same, although many elements are expected in both. For women, I was just thinking keeping an air of mystery - or perhaps mystique is better word as nobody wants to be dealt with evasively. In men's case women seem to want our whole life story, which I'm not sure is advantageous, though there'd never be enough time anyway.

But since the question is more general in nature... Despite how chauvinistic it sound these days, I'd still go with the old "Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets". A guy, occasionally, has the be the opposite.

@Faust76 I do prefer a gentleman in the street and freak in the sheets myself lol. I get your point. Thank you

@Lee124 No time for a book, haha. "occasionally" though. I tried to find source for the quote, but actually found It sounds catchy, but let's be honest it's not strictly true. And first of all, for the book one has to define "gentleman" and "freak" etc. these are not the same for everybody.

But everybody more or less loves a bit of the "bad boy", that's just how the culture is wired with elegant, nurturing, soft, feminine and powerful, confident, hard, masculine. (Generalizations are just that, of course) Just how much "bad boy" people end up with in their interpersonal relationship varies.