If you start dating and one has bad news, how soon should they tell the other? I started dating...

Teresa628 · 56-60, F

I don't get how you "date" someone online

Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M

Reveal it at first meeting that's how you don't waste time

LadyGrace ·

I think it's important to be honest and get things out front, so there's no surprises, if it's something really important.

dumpstermeow · 41-45, F

Immediately

Sweet517 · 51-55, F

An STD would be a deal breaker, although plenty of people manage realtionships with them using safe sex. IMHO, she would have been better to say something before the tickets were bought

Ynotjenn · F

This is a tough one. Depends on the issue I suppose and if you think they're worth it. But like I've said...the odds of it working out are slim anyway. Just a complicated situation. And you deserve the best 🤗

Shayla · F

With std's it should be revealed before engaging in sex. I would hope that the partner educate themselves on the specific ailment before making an informed decision.

Doomflower · 36-40, M

I think the first date should be where you are required to put deal breakers on the table.

louisesoulstar · 26-30, F

I agree with them both, tell her at once and don't wait.

somethingIsuppose · 31-35, F

I'd rather not waste time and invest emotionally for something that won't last. Like if it's a deal breaker 100% like for me if they were on heroin or something

Bazingaa · 51-55, M

Does it matter what it is? In this case it was std...

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

Pretty soon like why waste either person's time by prolonging the inevitable