If you start dating and one has bad news, how soon should they tell the other?

I started dating someone online... she let me know pretty quickly that she has an issue... that effectively killed the relationship. When is two early to reveal the big stuff?

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Sweet517 · 51-55, F

An STD would be a deal breaker, although plenty of people manage realtionships with them using safe sex. IMHO, she would have been better to say something before the tickets were bought

Bazingaa · 51-55, M

It didn't take long to disintegrate sadly... we barely speak and that was a couple weeks ago. @Sweet517

Sweet517 · 51-55, F

@Bazingaa I'm so sorry😞

Bazingaa · 51-55, M

Thanks... was rough for us... and rough for my friend Jenn to deal with my whining! But she is a great friend 😊@Sweet517