If you start dating and one has bad news, how soon should they tell the other?

I started dating someone online... she let me know pretty quickly that she has an issue... that effectively killed the relationship. When is two early to reveal the big stuff?

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somethingIsuppose · 31-35, F

I'd rather not waste time and invest emotionally for something that won't last. Like if it's a deal breaker 100% like for me if they were on heroin or something