If you start dating and one has bad news, how soon should they tell the other?

I started dating someone online... she let me know pretty quickly that she has an issue... that effectively killed the relationship. When is two early to reveal the big stuff?

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Doomflower · 41-45, M

I think the first date should be where you are required to put deal breakers on the table.

Bazingaa · 51-55, M

Problem is she is across country... big effort to make this particular first date...good advice, but easier if local.@Doomflower