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Opinion on a 63 year old man with 23 year old woman?

I am 63 and hooking up with a 23 year old woman for the past 3 months. Its amazing. We really got along at first and I made the first move and invited her for a cofee, and eventually proposed a hookup relationship which she wanted to try, and here we are.Obviously it won't become a realtionship but we only want sex so hope it will last.
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TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
You're both concenting adults, so that's fine.


However, if one expects more than the other in the relationship, or one is in it for fame, money, status, or any way to get ahead in life, that's a problem. Unless you've already discussed it and agree.


Long story short: I don't judge unless I know for a fact one is using the other for whatever reason.
exexec · 70-79, C
@MarkJK My wife was 39 when she was used for sex by a 65 year old man. She enjoyed it a lot.
MarkJK · M
@exexec Yes lots of people like that.
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
@MarkJK as long as you're on the same page, I don't see a problem.
lissah · 36-40, F
And then you woke up.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Rupert Murdoch has had a string of young trophy wives. Works for him.

My only two relationships have been with women both of whom are 7 yrs younger than me (I'm 57 now and they're both 50). Never dated women any younger.
showher2u · 41-45, M
Age is just a number. If you rock each others boat, don't let any other thought stop you.
You're one hell of a lucky man btw.
Good for you, enjoy it as long as you can, just be careful she doesn't gain access to your bank account.
exexec · 70-79, C
It's fine if both of you are happy and don't mind what other people think. It is actually none of their business what you do.
LauriesDarkDesires · 31-35, F
Nothing wrong with it.

I have been hooking up with men your age, and even older, since I was younger then I would want to say.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I feel like 25 is a more suitable floor for the youngest person in such gaps, but she's capable of making her own decisions so can't really condemn it.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
@MarkJK Brains are still in development up until around 25. It's true different people mature at different ages, but the decision making process still improves quite a bit over those last few years.
MarkJK · M
@ViciDraco You know that's a myth? studies can't even pinpoint when your brain gets developed. Some say close to 25 some say mid to late twenties, some 30s. That's why i never cared about it.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
@MarkJK That's why I used "I feel like" and said I can't condemn it. It is a soft position, not a hard stance.
as long as all parties are of a legal age, then, it really isnt anyone elses business. if you are happy and they are happy, that is all that matters.
My opinion is cool story bro 👏
Panamared · 70-79, M
Northwest · M
I guess her grandpa or her dad might have an opinion, but theirs may not count, unless she lives in a patriarchal society.
MarkJK · M
@Northwest They can think what they want, I think our sex life is none of their business.
I have 80 year olds trying to hook up with me and 23 year olds. Men will be men it’s up to the woman in question.
Hope you dont have a heart attack
MarkJK · M
@ExperienceDLT LOL not a chance, don't worry
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Good luck, as long as it's working out mutually
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Enjoy it for what it is 👍
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
If it makes you both happy, fine.
These days, "consenting adults" is all that's supposed to matter, but get ready for vitriol from some and a good bit of awkward feelings from more.
MarkJK · M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP No...we just meet for sex and occasionaly have dinner or go for a drink.
@MarkJK then it'll be in public places. However, if it's where they serve alcohol, you might find that subdues the awkwardness, but only for them. You'll be the ones dealing w/their Dutch courage.
MarkJK · M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP We never encountered anything yet. We don't talk to anyone when we are out and people don't approach us. We don't go to crowded places though.
Lowkey · M
Get em young and train em, like a good bird dog
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
Is the sex good?
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
@MarkJK that's great. I'm not fit enough to have sex with a twenty something unfortunately.
MarkJK · M
@Jacko1971 Why not?
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
@MarkJK Because I'm not fit. I had a heart attack 12 years ago and I don't exercise the way I should. Maybe if she were on top, I might stand a chance.
Age or it's difference has no meaning. So make hay while sun shines..
Ferric67 · M
Who are you? Bill Belicheck?
MarkJK · M
@Ferric67 no chance, just the average guy whos well groomed and works out
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MarkJK · M
@Miram Haha thanks for your opinion and checking out my profile. In terms of the 19yo the asker was being sexist so I just gave my view. If both people are adults, i don't see anything wrong with casual dating or sex, just nothing serious.
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MarkJK · M
@Miram If desire is wrong, then so are 99 percent of people are wrong, including you unless you have no desire?

I don't know what studies you have read, but there are plenty of people who had much older partners for sex and they think its great. You make a lot of assumptions.
BohoBabe · M
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
@BohoBabe lucky guy.
Nunki · 31-35, F
SW-User
MarkJK · M
@PinkMoon you can believe what you want to believe

 
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