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HumanEarth · F
Let her go, too young or wait till over the age limit in your area.

I live in a rural area to. Here everyone would get together and beat the "F" out you for even making a move on a minor. Just saying

I asked her out and she responded somewhat neutrally.

She is not interested. It doesn’t matter how old either of you are. Drop it and leave her alone.
@emiliya Who said anything about having sex??? Wasn’t he just asking her out in a date????? Or is it just assumed that’s what’s expected if her??? Methinks you may be the author of this post.
emiliya · 22-25, F
@Pinkstarburst What else do couples do? Relationships are sexual. The male and female have sex. Are they supposed to be something different?

Why are you concerned if it is only a date?
@emiliya
emiliya · 22-25, F
You have made several posts about the girl. This is not something you would do if you did not want “to date her now.”

The liberals want children to vote. My boyfriend is twenty years older than I. Why is a man in his twenties dating a 17 year old girl a problem?
emiliya · 22-25, F
@WowwGirl It will be ok if it happens when she is nineteen? Yes?
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@emiliya id rather 20 but 19 is fine
emiliya · 22-25, F
@WowwGirl Is it better for a young woman to be with an older husband or young boyfriends? The latter implies that she will have more partners and be exposed to greater risk. What would you want your daughter to do? Does she not need a man to take care of her?
black4white · 56-60, M
What is the age of consent in your country and follow that rule if THAT is your biggest concern

Good luck and also just talk and be friends with he if it blooms then great if not you may still have a friend :)
theweekdy · 22-25, M
Man icb leave the girl alone 🤦‍♂
You backed off at 16 because you knew it wasn’t right. Nothings changed: she’s still a minor and you’re still an adult.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@theweekdy 🙏
Do nothing yet. If it’s meant to happen it will one day even if it’s years down the line. I’ve seen people who I’ve not seen for 8 years or so. People are like busses, three come at once.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
It sounds like you're hyper-focused on her age and that you're not interested in her in any way except for the perceived value of being with someone younger than you. I wouldn't date someone I was not at least interested in.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@WowwGirl great
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@MartinTheFirst agree to disagree 👍
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@WowwGirl fan-tastic
Fillingthevoid · 46-50, MNew
Waiting till she turns 18 might look like grooming be safe and cut her off completely till then!! It not illegal but it is icky
Cyclist · 46-50, M
@Fillingthevoid not illegal depending on where.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Cyclist why are you so pro Nambla???

It's freaking weird
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
It seems like you are in love with her age... and the age difference. That's not much on which to build a "real" relationship. Best to keep this in your treasure chest of fantasies.
The age gap will still be there no matter what age you are. The real question is the legality of the situation which depends largely upon local and national laws where you live.
YoMomma ·
Ask her.. is 18 the legal age for consent in your area? If you feel like it’s inappropriate to pursue her then don't
Lilymoon · F
She is still a child
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Lilymoon oh I know their are but..... As you see😬
Lilymoon · F
@WowwGirl yeah they're def outnumbered 😬
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Lilymoon that's my favorite emoji...
Ya know 😬
MrCeez · 51-55, M
I would move on she’s to young and the gap will always be there
sylvsn59 · 61-69, M
Why don't you just be friends with her until she is 18. There shouldnt be a legal issue if you are not having sex but check your village laws.
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Masterjohn · M
@Stew1eX yes and now we have 7 boys
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@Masterjohn Congratulations on your family.
Masterjohn · M
@PinkMoon 23 years
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
If a 26 year old slept with my Teen daughter.... Well, Fun Fact---Castration is only aggravated assault if they live through it.
emiliya · 22-25, F
@WowwGirl Someone is going to sleep with her. What then?
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@emiliya let it be a teenager like her👍
emiliya · 22-25, F
@WowwGirl A boy? You don't remember boys from your teenage years?
She’s not an adult. She’s barely experienced life yet. Find someone your own age.
If it feels wrong, don't do it. Trust your instincts, not your hormones.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
What country are you from?
Cyclist · 46-50, M
@WowwGirl in addition to you being a bigot, it’s $10, not 10$.
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WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Cyclist and sarcasm is the last refuge for someone that doesn't have a good answer to a question. Sir,,,,
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Ask her dad the same question
...dude, it's only 9 yrs.

Stop worrying this like a dog with a bone.

Proceed.
@Stew1eX Is the age of consent 16 or 17?
JonUK41 · 36-40, M
@SomeMichGuy Its 16 - there's no legal problems in this scenario.

Some people might disapprove but that's a whole other issue
@JonUK41 Then fine.

Just don't take any compromising pictures pr vids until she reaches the age of majority (typically 18), @Stew1eX.
If you are asking the 'experts' here for relationship advice, you have bigger problems than an age gap.
Magenta · F
@RogueLodyte 😄 Right?!
Last place on earth I'd ask.
@Magenta Yeah, they have all the answers yet they are single and bitter. 😉
Lilyb · 22-25, F
"Hello Diddy? One got out"!
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Too risky - stay sway
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
That's a child no?
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
ask her out immediatelyt before you lose her....small village? africa or eastern europe
emiliya · 22-25, F
@helenoftroy2000 Africa? lol

There are villages all over Europe.
Jlester · 56-60, M
17 will get you ten years...lol jailbait
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Find someone your age. That’s all I’m gonna say.
Falakata village?
MethDozer · M
Stay away from the kids
emiliya · 22-25, F
@MethDozer The kid should have stayed away from the party.
MethDozer · M
@emiliya You should stay away from kids as well.
emiliya · 22-25, F
@MethDozer Por qué?

 
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