26M and 17F ?
Hello,
I'm a 26M and I'm in a bit of a tough spot. I live in a small village in a rather rural area. At the beginning of this year I was at a party with my friends and met a girl there. She kept smiling at me and I really liked her so I decided to make a move. Well, I found out she was from the same village and since she was only 16 (I was 25 at the time) I immediately stepped away.
A few days ago I went to another event and saw her again – I’m 26 now and she’s 17. She kept smiling at me like before so we danced and talked a little. I think we do like each other but I'm not sure how to proceed. I'm well aware of the age gap and I want to emphasize that I'm not the type of man who intentionally seeks out much younger girls but sometimes life presents unexpected situations.
Before leaving the event I asked her out and she responded somewhat neutrally. I also sent her a Instagram request, which she accepted. I want to write her a message to thank her for the nice evening and ask her out again but I feel very unsure about it because of the age gap.
Should I wait until she turns 18 or simply forget her ? Even if I ask her out, I'm not sure if I wanted to date her right now. Probably I would wait until she's 18. I just want to find out if we can click together and whether there is any potential between us..
I'm a 26M and I'm in a bit of a tough spot. I live in a small village in a rather rural area. At the beginning of this year I was at a party with my friends and met a girl there. She kept smiling at me and I really liked her so I decided to make a move. Well, I found out she was from the same village and since she was only 16 (I was 25 at the time) I immediately stepped away.
A few days ago I went to another event and saw her again – I’m 26 now and she’s 17. She kept smiling at me like before so we danced and talked a little. I think we do like each other but I'm not sure how to proceed. I'm well aware of the age gap and I want to emphasize that I'm not the type of man who intentionally seeks out much younger girls but sometimes life presents unexpected situations.
Before leaving the event I asked her out and she responded somewhat neutrally. I also sent her a Instagram request, which she accepted. I want to write her a message to thank her for the nice evening and ask her out again but I feel very unsure about it because of the age gap.
Should I wait until she turns 18 or simply forget her ? Even if I ask her out, I'm not sure if I wanted to date her right now. Probably I would wait until she's 18. I just want to find out if we can click together and whether there is any potential between us..
26-30
