I love to watch my wife having sex with my friends and strangers. We are almost 13 years married, and it's very excited to have Polyamory and open relationships

I don't have an issue with it and I am sure there has to be some people out there for whom it works out and that is great.


However, the people I have met in person who flocked to that (with one exception) were people who were fleeing very toxic monogamous relationships and had frankly scary ideas about relationship dynamics in general and ended up just reproducing their toxic relationships but just adding more people to the chaos and drama.

It really should be the norm tbh. Monogamy is a very outdated concept. I was raised by a poly quintuple and they're the best parents I could've ever asked for and the best people I know. I'm surprised more people aren't in poly relationships these days simply for financial reasons 😂

I've been in a poly relationship. It was nice until time management became an issue and certain members of the quad were getting more attention than others. I can't see it going any other way, honestly.

My ex wife is into polyandrous relationships. I have no ill will towards her, just wish her the best and move on. I have never been in one myself but I do find it interesting

do you watch each other having sex,

I'm not seeing anyone at the moment, and not particularly interested in changing that. But if I was, I'm pretty sure I would be polyamorous. I have only extremes.

Me and my husband been married for 6 year's. We been in a open relationship for 7

I agree with you and open relationships is best when you are forced to stick to your marriage life. However, if you find a right partner who goes above and beyond there is no necessity for another person.

If you find a correct partner, I am sure it’s hard to spend quality time with another person.

That's great you have such a mutual relationship.Good as long as it works for people.

You should find these people and ask them.

Personally, I don’t care what you do.

I'm with you...have been in two thruples and group relations over the years

I don’t think it is far fetched and it’s great if you can navigate that kind of relationship. It just seems most people have difficulty with jealousy not getting in the way of a relationship like that but it sounds like it is working for you so that’s all that matters.

In my social circle it is nonexistent. It seems to exist entirely online. And I suspect in certain cases it’s people lying in an attempt to appear interesting.

Hi Rosie, genuine question from me as it is not a subject I know a lot about. How do you deal with the inevitable, or is it inevitable, issues of jealousy? What if partner a) suspects that partner b) is having more of your time and emotion etc….is that a thing in this lifestyle? Just wondering!

It gets complicated. Involve more than one partner. Involve children. Who is the mother? Who is the father? Combined incomes. Homes shared. As you become older, you likely will find them less desirable on the whole.

Can't get your question ! Are you asking why most don't prefer polyamory or open relationship?

I personally don't have a issue with it. Long as both parties consent and are respectful to eachother, what's the harm?

I will say it as I feel it. [b]I can like many; I can love only one[/b].
Nothing wrong with others having their own preferences :)

I envy that level of detachment lol.
I’d go insane if someone was making my girlfriend moan in front of me.

[quote] some couples operate well in these types of relationships?[/quote]

Isn't polyamory, by definition, not a "couple" relationship?

There's a few of us poly folk around here. You'll get more acceptance here. Though awareness can still be pretty low. Plenty of the types that think you can't love more than one person at a time will leave us feeling the collateral damage as they verbally bombard people for cheating or hypergamy.

26 years for us