Dinner Question You're having dinner, your mom spent a good hour or two making or preparing it,...

WildBill25 · 26-30, M

In my house there's always 2 choices at meal time, take it, or leave it! You were right in eating it! She took the time and effort to make it! You're not going to die! What you say to her afterwards is up to you, you know her better than anyone here does! I'm sure whatever you say will be polite and respectful! Good on you for eating it!

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

You’re blessed to have a mother spend time to cook for you. Yeah maybe you want something different but she’s your mother.

SomeMichGuy · M

Tell your Mom that you appreciate all her effort, but you already know she loves you and you'd love to do things together beyond the meals--tell her she doesn't need to feed you to get you to come by.

Justafantasy · M

She put a lot of effort in. Be appreciative.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Depends on the mom. She willing to accept some criticism about her cooking or will it break her heart? You know your mom better than I.

If it was my mom, she'd be complaining about the food before it came to the table because she's a good cook.

If it was my wife's mom I don't care I will eat it and say its delicious.

Luke73 · 26-30, M

I think that being honest is usually the best thing. And just because you get tired of it, doesn't mean that you don't appreciate it. You can be happy that she makes it but also say your honest opinion. I don't think it's one or the other only.

JamesBugman

That is a tough one. I would probably say something like "that is not my favourite dish, I liked it, but would prefer something else to be honest" Then she won't be inclined to make it again.

SW-User

Just say it was good! It probably was, even if you've had it loads of times :)

Flenflyys · 31-35, F

But you said it wasn’t bad, and she didn’t ask if it was boring.

This issue should be addressed not after she’s spent time on the meal and served it to you

Elisbch · M

I would compliment her dinner. You won't always have her to make dinner. Enjoy it and let her feel good about it while you can. imho

CactusJackManson · 51-55, M

You should appreciate that she fixed it for you. At your age, she didn't have to.

deadgerbil · 26-30, M

You just eat it and say it's good. Not even a question

SW-User

I would just say it was ok.

hiddenallison · 36-40, F

Make mom happy!!!

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

You could say something like yes it was good mom. Hey do you think we could have ___ tonight?

twistedrope · 26-30, M

There's nothing wrong with lying you know. Its best not too, but being polite is good. Just try to understand people and their fragile egos. Life is not as simple as "Yes/No". Otherwise there would be no need for mediation or communication seminars/webinars.

Heartlander · 80-89, M

How about just say “Yes! It was great! Just an earlier snack zapped my appetite a bit. I hate to see what’s left go to waste, so can I take it with me for a midnight snack?”

:) honesty has to sometimes be carefully managed.

meJess · F

Show your appreciation for the time and effort even if the result isn’t to your particular taste.

Consider cooking for yourself if you find what is provided for free to be boring.

Mudkip · 31-35, M

I always appreciate it when mom makes me dinner. Especially comfort foods, I always make sure to thank her 👏

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matthewjames · 18-21, M

I dont eat it if I dont like it so she knows

Madmonk · M

Yes. That last part.

GeniUs · 56-60, M

You say 'yes' and then, 'let me make dinner for you tomorrow'.
Your momma will be happy and you can have that thrilling meal that'll blow your socks off.

jamesbest · 26-30, M

Say yes

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Why don't you start cooking dinner and see how that works out for you? You are insensitive, self-absorbed, your behaviour is obnoxious, and quite honestly, I'm sick of it.

OogieBoogie · F

I think ur overthinking it.
Be kind ....let it go 🤗

You arent going to burn in hell for sacrificing your feelings fir being compassionate.

StygianKohlrabi · M

unless you can fend for yourself just pay your respects because your tastebuds probably aren't all that accurate. just put some Frank's redhot on the table.

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NativePortlander1970

Well then, maybe it's time to get your own place and start cooking for yourself since you're so unappreciative. I mean after all, you're now an adult over the age of 22, most of us older folks moved out when we turned 18 when wages were much lower than they are today.