What is cleavage etiquette??? [I Want to Be Happy And Make Others Be Happy]

Here is the truth: If you are goodlooking and would make for eye candy by her side, she's going to be pissed if you aren't noticeably attracted.

If you have some other social status like being wealthy or powerful, she'll also want to know she can catch your eye, though she'll toy with you more and may express disgust at attention.

If you're the other 90% of man out there, those boobs aren't on display for you. You might win her over with a lot of smooth talk or if she's desperate enough, but if she doesn't feel like you're in one of the first two categories, she's going to feel like she is selling herself short

My breast protocol is to marinate them for a couple of hours before putting them on the grill

We want you to think we don’t know that your looking but we think it’s funny that your thinking you’ll get in trouble. So, we don’t catch you looking because we always know your looking.

Look away. 🤓

Look normally as if it's any other body part. Don't stare 👀

Lolz. They can lie to themselves all they want, but it is on display to be seen, otherwise they would dress better

Don't get caught... Simple as that!

Ha, if I like the guy I enjoy it when they look.

About other people... As long as that's not the only thing they look at, it's fine. As long as they don't reduce me to that physical part, it's all good. Haha.

I’m going to fashion a pair on men’s pants that seductively show off exactly 3/4s of my bawls..
Just so I can give women filthy looks when I catch their pervy asses looking 😇

I get cleavage even in a sports bra.
Im a GG cup, I dont have cleavage om purpose for the most part.My boobs just eat my shirts
Mostly dont care if they look, but looking too long is a no no and creepy.Glance but dont stare.

What's cleavage!? So flat chested my tube top looks like it's censoring my boobs.!!!!

I had a girl friend who had ENORMOUS boobs. Mine look like two fried eggs stuck go a wall. So when she would wear a tank top I would just STARE and I couldn't help it. She would make fun of me for staring and I would make fun of her for displaying her giant tiddies.

The thing was that she had such big knockers she'd have cleavage in a turtleneck. It gave her back problems.

Our friendship blew up a long time ago but I often wonder if she still has those giant boobs. Of maybe they exploded. Or maybe they got cancer. Or maybe they got reduced. I suspect she is still using them to get free drugs and be a dumb slutty girl who doesn't need to think got herself because bewbs.

And on the 7th day.. god created mirrored sunglasses

Motorboat

If a woman is purposely showing her cleavage, yes, I'm going to look and possibly smile as well. Men are drawn to such views and women know it so why be ashamed to look or be looked at.

What is on display is going to be looked at. That's something that should be understood.
But there is a way of looking and not making it creepy, I guess.
And there is a way of displaying and not making it pornographic.🤷‍♀️
Depends how voluptous someone is.

And then there is that whole under the surface stuff going on that plungesponge described.

Remember it is a trick! ... dont fall for it

I think its just growing up, my personality but I tend to dress in dark colors and covered up. My goal was always to not draw attention. If someone has them pushed up and on full display, Im sorry but they would like to be noticed. 😅

Imagine if you lived in a nudist camp. All around you would be people of all ages and genders in all kinds of activities. Very soon, like all nudists, you would cease to be affected by how bodies look and you'd start to pay more attention to the character of the person in the body.
This is the right etiquette for all people, irrespective of what they are wearing.

Now let's examine an opposite scenario. Let's say you're in a moderate Muslim culture where women are encouraged to dress modestly to show their devotion and surrender to Allah. The more modestly one dresses, the more modestly another must dress in order to express it relative to others and relative to the reactions of men to those few women who lag behind or choose to show more (even if they are ancient, deformed or crippled). If these keeps going, it ends up in a fundamentalist situation where women remain housebound, have no education and can go nowhere unless protected by a husband or close male relative. Woe betide the childless woman, female orphan or woman whose menfolk have died in war - for she cannot leave her home even to buy food.

The fact is men have libidos 14 times more potent than women's, and they must learn to control their urges no matter what women wear or don't wear. Otherwise we end up with a completely uncivilised society where women have few or no rights as human beings.

The feelings of lust come from inside you - not from what you see and react too. By the time you are 90, that same sight will be mildly enjoyable, like watching a flock of birds swirling in the sky. It's the hormones, not the woman's dress, that are at issue.

Whip it out and go nuts !!

If you take your phone up right to them (@)v(@) and snap a pic you might be going too far. Just a guess

if you don't know at your age you are hopeless, but I will try to explain:

1--read her mind
2--do and say what she wants you to do or say
3--apologize when she reacts negatively to your action or comment.

It’s so hard to to look. A few times I believe I’ve been caught looking. I don’t know what they thought about it.

But if one would say catch me and the she would ask if I liked and said look all you want (which will probably never) happen it would still be strange to look.

Me and my wife had a mutual friend that flashed me right in front of my wife. She wanted me to buy her a pack of cigarettes I was joking what do I get I was going to get them for her she was a good friend of the time.

My wife was right there and it somehow went to her flashing and she did it.

Just mind your own business lol - we tend to give women too much attention solely for their looks as it is

yeh i don't get it, women do it at my work, then when a bloke ogles they start huffing, I'm like do you or do you not want the attention?

if i wore a low cut top id want the ogling, if i didn't wear a low cut up i don't.

Just don't stare and drool too long!

The problem, or advantage, of being tall,is that the display from my angle isn't always intentional.

Depends on the women and what she thinks of you, which is why it can be so tough.

Also how long and how you get caught are important factors as well.

I think you're supposed to tap on them to see if they are ripe, but I'm not sure what they are supposed to sound like.🤷‍♂️

Be a gentleman and at least look at my face if you’re talking to me but I don’t have my boobs flopping out all over.

Boldly enjoy the view, make no pretense of not noticing.

Look long enough to appreciate.
But not too long that it makes the person uncomfortable.

Don't forget her eyes. They are watching you.

Different take. I am taking a course from a woman on relationships and sex...she says women dress up and look nice, and put themselves on display for other women...since, not to attract them, but to show you are more deserving of a man's attention than they are...or to impress women...not to attract them at all. Interesting take which I never thought of.

Yell out ‘nice tits’
Breaks the tension

you’re too old to be asking these sort of questions

Just keep looking till it becomes absolutely uncomfortable for the rack holder 😒

Tank tops are your friends

My breasts are large so I can’t hide them
My cleavage on show attracts attention
I’m well aware and enjoy it
I’m confident to know my curves are me and if I show them that’s just me being me

differs girl to girl
when i show it, i accept you will look that is NOT an invitation to make a move
but i feel if i show it off? men will look they HAVE too it is in the genes

It’s all about how well you know the woman, but the chances of you looking are 100%.

The looking spectrum just goes from millisecond peek to motorboat.

If it's work... I don't make any indication of it.

Anywhere else... my face usually gives myself away that I'm distracted.

That belongs in the “reckless eyeballing” street charge. If she feels the glance you take a chance on being pimp slapped.

GREAT QUESTION. I try to not be a leering observer.

You missed the obvious “breast practices” 😐

Try not to drool

Smoke em if you got em..

Breasts are great

We always know when you are looking. It doesn’t bother me one bit.

We just want boobs