If 2 people were gonna fight in order to be with you would you feel flattered in a way or like "uh what's going on"?
If you're about go on a date with somebody and come to find out they show up in an uber and thats how they plan on taking youHow would you feel about it?
If a stray dog started charging at you and instead of running away you run towards it do you think that'll confuse it or throw off the attack?
If a movie theater fully ran out of popcorn how much do you think that would throw everything off for them?