What is cleavage etiquette??? [I Want to Be Happy And Make Others Be Happy]

I am completely lost on this subject.
When you have your breast on display am I supposed to only look when you can't catch me??
Am I supposed to get caught looking and slyly avert my eyes after a spell??
What is the breast protocol in this matter?
I must know.

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SW-User

I get cleavage even in a sports bra.
Im a GG cup, I dont have cleavage om purpose for the most part.My boobs just eat my shirts
Mostly dont care if they look, but looking too long is a no no and creepy.Glance but dont stare.

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

@SW-User I like this answer but it is my experience that women want to be noticed when they dress this way but ONLY by the right guys. A fat ugly old man is not the one they want to notice (so i just get dirty looks LOL)

SW-User

@istillhaveanameitsrick Sadly a lot of bras are meant to give you a boost and if you're a DD cup and up then you're gonna have cleavage unless it's a turtleneck or a t-shirt that goes up to the neck(which is how men usually wear it).
There are the men who stare too long and its like they want you to notice and that scares tf out of me. Probs cause men have followed me to the bathroom or even all over the store. Just too bold and looks like they're testing my reaction.😞

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

@SW-User Yeah that is just weird, i would never do that. Hell i get nervous commenting on pictures women share on here because i'm afraid i will offend them LOL

SW-User

@istillhaveanameitsrick I feel like thats different cause at least you can't feel it.
Its not really the staring that bothers me I guess, its why they're starting and the fact that I don't know who they are and what they're capable of. Stranger danger to the maximum.😟

SW-User

@istillhaveanameitsrick And at least they aren't in close proximity. I had a guy at a gas station watch me instead of check out, and then followed me out and was afraid he would follow me home which was only down the street. Had to wait until he left.

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

@SW-User Yeah that would be a problem, especially if you were walking. If you were driving you could just drive to the nearest police station and stop LOL

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User Great answer. So, According to your answer as I understand it, it's ok to notice. It's ok to be seen looking but that is where it should stop. Maybe make eye contact after one is caught looking and a quick smile??

SW-User

@Dainbramadge eye contact is worse.
The more bolder you are with it the worse it gets.
Cause its like...I don't know you.I dont know if you're just being nice about it or if you're testing to see if u can get away with more than that.Testing the waters to see if I care or not so then you can try something more.And the more bold you are the more I assume you are capable of much more than that

Dont smile, glance and move on.To look at my boobs and smile when I dont know what you're capable of or what your intent is, for all I know you could follow me and rape me.And tbis is just your way of seeing if Im interested or how I react.For a lot of women strange men are something u are careful around.

The only guys who have ever looked at my cleavage and smiled were those that were testing before they do something worse.Normally guys glance and maybe maybe eye contact but avert after.They dont smile or continue in any way.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User I think I understand now. Thanks. :-)