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Mudkip · 31-35, M
Shit if that's flirting for her then I've been flirting with all my coworkers then 💀
nonsensiclesnail · F
I think some people lack kindness in their lives and the only kindness they regularly see is that of those trying to get fucked by them, so they assume all kindness is the same.
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This happened to me too! 😂
valentina21 · 22-25, F
Literally just making eye contact because of my ADHD 😭 i get distracted easily if i dont make any contact i will hit you with a big “ HUH” because i didn’t pay attention whatsoever
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@valentina21 Aw, I feel you there. I know exactly what you mean.
Aysel · F
I've experienced this, or other women have told me to stay away from their boyfriend, even though I wasn't flirting or sending out any signals to suggest such.
Ferric67 · M
Same here, I'm always getting myself in uncomfortable situations...simply because I'm friendly and polite
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
It's polite to maintain eye contact when holding a conversation.
Convivial · 26-30, F
That's a bit weird... Her problem, not yours
gailo · 61-69, F
Valid question. Even innocently meant things we write are often taken in ways we didn't invite. I think the answer to your question is that many whose eyes we meet desperately hope it's "more." Having come to realize that over my years leaves me with a soft spot for them. For better or worse, I usually add a smile to the mix. Nine times out of ten we go our separate ways, with the warmth of the connection leaving both of us one notch the better because another human being has acknowledged our existence and by their action they've given us their vote. Simple approval puts a spring in our steps that can last the whole day...both his and mine, too. It's a viewpoint worth considering.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
She has issues
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Oh yes! This frustrates me big time, can't be nice now without it being seen as flirting or whatever else. So i just let them think what they like now, I'm not going to stop being nice.
JonLosAngeles66 · M
Unfortunately happens to lots of attractive women. Any attention they give is construed as being interested sexually
Fishy · 36-40, F
Maybe she has feelings for you and it "feels" like flirting from her point of view
valentina21 · 22-25, F
@Fishy i highly believe that because she often asks me about my “ love life” and how she can be better then she says jk in the end😭😭
valobasa4ever · F
May be they are A-B-Normal !?
Just curious _ Are You friendly like Casper ? 👻
Just curious _ Are You friendly like Casper ? 👻
Sojournersoul · M
@valobasa4ever I am. Lol
valobasa4ever · F
@Sojournersoul A-B-Normal or Casper ! ? 😎 ;-)
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Women judge each other by the threat they perceive they pose.
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Are you cute?
valentina21 · 22-25, F
@TheRascallyOne i say i am lol are you mr no pfp
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@valentina21 No 😔
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@valentina21 but most people are amazed when a cute girl is nice to them and misread the situation
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Lacking mental comprehension, probably.
I had this one girl at work tell everyone i was flirting with her, because i had eye contact with her while talking
Do you work in an IT department? 😆
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valentina21 · 22-25, F
@jshm2 ☠️☠️☠️ you’re so funny trynna prove a point when your perspective about narcissist behavior is completely wrong try again before coming at me. 100% of the time humans will continue to believe “ friendly personality ” is “ flirting “ and multiple humans here agree lol so you’re either a loser with no personality or just a hater 🫶🏼
ABCDEF7 · M
I guess, some people develops few perceptions depending on the culture, environment and experiences. That do no match with your intentions/feelings.
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
not sure but i would add many young people now are very stupid and weird.
Princessbellaxx · F
@darkmere1983 thanks lol
SW-User
Why do people mistake my sarcasm for being serious ? It's a mystery
valentina21 · 22-25, F
@SW-User 😭😭 then they just wonder “ was she/he being rude or”
SW-User
@valentina21 probably
SW-User
Because people have rigid views on what flirting is. They never take personality into account.
valentina21 · 22-25, F
Like I’m not flirting I’m just funny and you like me☹️
SarahConnorT800 · F
@valentina21 hah
SarahConnorT800 · F
@valentina21 i know its because they like u
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PhoenixPhail · M
It's totally her issue. Those who are open will see it's her issue, too.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
That must be horrible. Just keep being you though.
It's usually the choice of words
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Wishful thinking?
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Wishful thinking on their part, typically.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Well, were you making constant eye contact, or just occasional eye contact to show that you weren't afraid of her eyes? There's a difference.
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