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It is now ok to shower in the boys locker room as long as they shower in ours?

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Having a male naked in the girls locker room heading to the showers with a towel over his junk led to 5 girls running out shrieking.

Can we invade the boys locker room for tampons and a shower?
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I did my Scouting Essentials leader training course on the weekend just gone, and the subject of gender inclusiveness came up when we were talking about sleeping/toileting arrangements for camps and other similar activities.

The current ruling is that a trans person is allowed to use whichever facilities apply to the 'gender' that the trans person identifies as regardless of what their actual real gender (birth gender) is.

That means we have to allow trans youth identifying as male to use male facilities, similarly if they identify as female.

Nobody knows what to do with trans people who might think they are non-binary, or therian, or clown/clownself, or similar.

Remember there are only two genders - male and female - depending on what you were at birth.
Sharon · F
@zonavar68
To me a man is a male, a woman is a female,
I agree, "man" and "woman" are just specific terms for adult male and female humans respectively. However, gender (masculinity and femininity) does not necesarily concur with sex (male and female). A man is not necessarily predominately masculine nor a woman predominately feminine, which they would be if sex and gender were the same.
Adrift · 61-69, F
@Sharon Who cares.
CorvusBlackthorne · 100+, M
@Adrift Humans who do not hate their fellow humans.
UKNaturist · M
My local swimming baths has male and female changing rooms. However, when kids have their lessons, some mothers feel that it's ok to come into the male changing room with their young sons to ensure that they get dried and dressed after their lesson. They also get huffy when a man undresses in their presence.
Men can't win sometimes 😪
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onewithshoes · 26-30, F
@UKNaturist In other times and places a mother might take a small boy into the ladies room, but it is a quandary either way. At the root of all of these difficult considerations, though, lies a fear of perverts and predators which is unfortunately not groundless. A dad might feel safer trusting a friendly female to accompany his daughter than the other way around, though. That's just how it is. Our species is just not as benign as most of us would wish.😞
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Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
"Can we invade the boys locker room for tampons and a shower?"

You can in Minnesota.

I haven't researched how many other states might have tampons in the boys' locker room.
RICHARD1313 · 51-55, M
@BohemianBabe incorrect. Conservatives want B to conserve morals and ethics. "Sex ed" has become "you can choose your gender" also it can protect them iv they know consequences but xan also make them curious to try sex.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@RICHARD1313 Nope. Nice try.
@RICHARD1313 There's decades of evidence to show that sex ed results in less teen pregnancies, and more kids telling someone if they're being molested. Maybe some religious people are against sex ed because they've honestly been brainwashed into thinking all you need is prayer to protect kids from sexual abuse. But when it comes to the right-wing establishment, it's pretty clear they just want to protect child abusers.
twistedrope · 26-30, M
At work we have a gender neutral toilet and it is uncomfortable for everyone involved. Some avoid it and go to another toilet instead where it is gendered. Its a terrible situation.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@twistedrope Sounds like it was implemented poorly.
twistedrope · 26-30, M
@LordShadowfire It's a govt org so they were cost cutting in new and unusual ways.
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Cantsayno · 56-60, M
This is getting out of control. You can’t go into a locker room just because you identify as that gender.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
I bet the difference is percentages in the answer to this is not statistically different than the percentages of men and women on the site.
Jessmari · 46-50
Aa long as you don't interrupt the ring toss games. Wait your turn.
Justme264 · 70-79, M
I don't see why not - rules should be applied fairly
This is actually a pretty smart move on the guys part, for one he doesn't care if you run out, 2 one or more of you might stay, and 3 if you all run out he can steal all your panties.
cuteblondegreyguy · 56-60, M
It is MY understanding that-from a purely LEGAL standpoint-consenting adult men and women can take nude showers together ONLY in private places of residences-with no children present.
cuteblondegreyguy · 56-60, M
@Sharon I see. Let me be sure that I understand this correctly: In England-men, women, and children can take nude showers together? If the aforementioned is true-then this is FURTHER proof that nudity/nudism is not ALWAYS "sexual."
Sharon · F
@cuteblondegreyguy Yes, nudity per se is not necessarily sexual and definitely not a criminal offence.
cuteblondegreyguy · 56-60, M
@Sharon Very well expressed. :)
Peter85 · 36-40, M
katydidnt · 61-69, F
This thread got me wondering: do nudist camps have communal showers? Seems logical, consistent with the basic premise behind their existence.
@katydidnt Yes they actually do. Usually an outdoors one so anyone can see you showering. They do have men and women washrooms for taking a piss though.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@JamesBugman That makes sense. That's something you want to do alone.
katydidnt · 61-69, F
@JamesBugman Seems reasonable. Reveal your pronouns, not your verbs.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
That would make my year when I was a kid, feel free
JestAJester · 31-35, M
You know trump passed a bill to forbid that? I wonder if it has passed yet
Lyn4Zoo · 56-60, F
@JestAJester

On April 20, 2023 (Biden Administration) Today, the U.S. House of Representatives voted to pass H.R. 734, the Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act, by a 219-203 vote.

March 3, 2025 - The U.S. Senate took a procedural vote on the Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act, legislation to require federally-funded institutions to keep men out of women’s sports, locker rooms, and other spaces designated only for females. The bill did not receive the 60 votes needed to proceed. All 45 Democrats refused to stand up for female athletes and voted to block the bill.
Sharon · F
@Lyn4Zoo Such laws should be sex neutral. If men are banned from women's lockers rooms, women should also be banned from men's locker rooms.
onewithshoes · 26-30, F
It's time to seriously consider the question of why communities should even spend the extra money to build separate facilities.
The purpose served by such duplication and separation is instantly invalidated the moment anything with a penis is allowed into into a facility supposedly set aside for females -- or the other way round.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Yes, most men won't shreik and run out.
BlueVeins · 22-25
You're 56. You shouldn't be in a girls locker room in the first place.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
My shower is really only big enough for two
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@DownTheStreet I've never showered with anyone except myself and I *never* shower at work after my shifts (where there are currently seperate male and female facilities) nor do I even have a locker at work.
Nakdhouseboi · 51-55, M
As long as females at our local speedway constantly run into the mens toilets drop there jeans and piss in trough looking up at dads with 5,6,7,8, 10 , 14, year old sons while there urinate then yes ithink its fine for males to enter girl locker room's untill you practice what you preach.
I don't believe the boys locker room has any tampons
@GerOttman Maybe should... but usually they discourage boys from having sex, and therefore don't give them condoms either
GerOttman · 61-69, M
@sstronaut Well it's always worked before I suppose.
Lyn4Zoo · 56-60, F
@sstronaut Hmmmm… it’s likely some still do in MN, MA, CA, NY, ME,NH, NN, etc
GerOttman · 61-69, M
I think they should junk the whole thing and make all locker/shower areas coed and be done with it. Starship Troopers style!
cuteblondegreyguy · 56-60, M
@GerOttman I am in PARTIAL agreement with your contention-as long as co ed shower/locker room facilities are clearly labeled as such-and that persons who are uncomfortable with co ed arrangements would still have easy access to "men only" and "women only" facilities.
Sharon · F
@cuteblondegreyguy If there are to be "women only" facilities, there must also be corresponding "men only" facilities.
cuteblondegreyguy · 56-60, M
@Sharon It is my understanding that there ARE separate changing locker rooms-one for men ONLY; one for women "ONLY"-inside the West Des Moines Iowa YMCA family oriented gym/health/exercise club.
SW-User
I'm for separate showers. No guys, no fake women.
Sharon · F
@SW-User So this person (born female) would be OK -
but not this one (born male) -

Got it.
SW-User
@Sharon Using total freaks of nature as poster children is biased and dishonest.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Ask them if they can "identify' as a different race.
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Only if it is consensual...
RICHARD1313 · 51-55, M
The only problem with that question is guys will not have a problem with women in their locker room.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Did the person with a towel have an erection? If not, then it's probably safe.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
@Tastyfrzz Last time I remember, the towel just went over the shoulder.
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pdockal · 56-60, M
The world has lost its mind
Can we invade the boys locker room for tampons and a shower?

Only if you're hot. Hot chicks only!
Adrift · 61-69, F
They should have thrown tampons at him and chanted plug it up. Like they did in the movie Carrie.
Thrust · 56-60, M
@Adrift I like it! After the boys in cell block 6 passed him around!
Entwistle · 56-60, M
If you identify as a pervert then yes I guess so.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
Your name and groups imply bestiality.
And YOU want to call others perverts?
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onewithshoes · 26-30, F
@Adogslife
That all may have been true when you went to school,
but today it all depends on where you happen live, and what school you happen to attend.🙄
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@onewithshoes The Op said there was a male in the girls locker room. I find it hard to believe he wasn’t in his own locker room.

Personally, I think the post is a fake.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Is this another anti-trans post?
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