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Sexting with other people while in a relationship.

Is it cheating according to you?
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Have fun , no harm done ! ;-)
@TallMtnMedic Will update you ! ;-) 🍁✨
97 only .
You were pretty sure.

Hats Off ! @TallMtnMedic
@valobasa4ever Some guy just said in his mind, "97? Challenge accepted" lol
akindheart · 61-69, F
yes it is. it is emotional cheating
Matt85 · 36-40, M
Madusa · 22-25, F
Clearly cheating
It might not be cheating , but it says a lot about one’s loyalty ….
SW-User
@Soossie You are too classy for that.
@SW-User

Thank you …
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
I don't think so but it can become cheating very easily especially if it's with someone local to you and that fantasy has a more realistic chance of becoming reality.
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@JustGoneNow no no. I just went to bed. I'll be reading it shortly :)
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
@JustGoneNow Thanks for sharing that. Definitely not too long of a read :) It's a very complicated answer indeed and to do in a way that isn't cheating requires proper communication and boundaries like in your scenario. I find it to be interactive word porn with friends essentially.
Northwest · M
Trying to figure out how this could be considered a gray area.
Not if you're in an open relationship.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Depends upon how and why it is done. 1. Is it done behind partner's back or with their knowledge? Secrecy for whatever reason makes it cheating, or you wouldn't be keeping it secret. 2. Is it with one person, or multiple? Doesn't have so much to do with the cheating issue, but a lot to do with perceived threat and prodding insecurities. 3. What kind of sexting and why? If it is just fantasy about things your partner is not interested in discussing or doing, what's the harm?

For the record: I used to do a lot of cybering in the old chat rooms, before texting was even a thing. My wife knew about it because I told her. She wasn't thrilled by it but wrote it off as male midlife crisis, knowing it was fantasies she didn't care to discuss or do. For my part, I made it clear with every partner that I was happily married and our cybering was never going to lead to anything in rl. Fact is, my wife and I actually would up meeting a half-dozen of the women solely for platonic friendship because I found them interesting as did she. She only had issues once when the woman came to our meeting with a clear objective beyond the groundrules I had set about nothing happening in rl
Panamared · 70-79, M
Just a little fun, no harm
wintersecret · 41-45, M
Unless u dont go body contact
Its just fun
It really depends on how you and your partner both feel about it in the context of your relationship. If you don’t know because it’s something you have to hide, then it’s clearly cheating.
Bowenw · 61-69, M
It would depend on who it is with and if there is an emotional connection.
daddybloke · 46-50, M
no just a bit of fun
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Yes for sure.
Panamared · 70-79, M
Just do it, have fun
Alyosha · 31-35, M
Patriot96 · 56-60, C
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Really depends on the person. No, as long as they dont meet. It really comes down to if you can separate fantasy from reality.
SW-User
Assuming the other person in the relationship doesn't know, or would not approve, yes, it is cheating. But it is not cheating as badly as actually having sex with other people.
looping · 22-25
yeah it's cheating.
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
Yeah, there's no grey area on that for me. I can't see myself having that kind of open relationship
Amor69Fati · 56-60, M
Depends on, with whom...
Disha10 · 22-25, F
@Amor69Fati what do you mean
Amor69Fati · 56-60, M
@Disha10 if it's with the person in a relationship it's kool... If not, I don't think so...
Disha10 · 22-25, F
@Amor69Fati so you went after a loophole in my question 😂
It is according to me, and if to some it is not, it will lead to it.
Filho · 36-40, M
IDK I feel nothing harm doing it
but then it depends on individual
Deceased · M
In my personal opinion its a really gray area. Which are my favorites.
EmmaBBY · 18-21, F
Yes, like there is no debate for otherwise
Herefornow · 26-30, M
Yeah it would be. Good thing I'm not in one.
With some one other than your partner?
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
Yes and no are you being taken care of ?
xbandoleerx · 56-60, M
Are you unsure about it?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@xbandoleerx creepy
Lonelyandyb · 36-40, M
I think to some degree yes
ChadJNSD · 18-21, M
Are her parents included? I have done that with former girlfriend.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Yeah, probably so.
Budwick · 70-79, M
Is it cheating according to you?

Absolutely!
edtur61 · 61-69, M
I don’t think so
campfireandstars · 41-45, M
yes, it's wrong.
BLP11520 · 61-69, M
Panda5689 · M
Totally inappropriate.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Definitely
mysteriouslion · 31-35, M
i would say No. :P
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
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SorryImHerexD · 26-30, M
How about this: you show the person you're dating all the sexting that's hiding in your DMs, and take a good long look at their face as they read it all.

Then you tell me how hurt and betrayed they were and answer your own question.

If you wanna be sexy and have all this fun thats great but if someone thinks they have something special with you and youre sexting randos on the side? People like that are why everyone I've ever met online has trust issues. Congratulations.

 
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