Could you go a month without an orgasm?

@Longpatrol because I have cervical cancer and had my first surgery a few weeks ago. If I orgasm it could open me up. It's not by choice trust me.

@AlchemyFox Oh shit. I'm so sorry. I was not aware, I understand now.

@AlchemyFox Aww very sorry to hear 😞

@SlaveEt no, not by choice

@SooperSarah
I take it self care is not an option. That sucks.

@SlaveEt I think it's a mental block. I'm becoming more and more okay with it

@meggie How regular would you venture to say regularly is ? Surely regular is different for everyone right 🤔

@meggie Good for you.

@FreeSpirit1 girl I can't take it 😂

@AlchemyFox poor thing 😕

@SlaveEt love to have been the "Dam breaker" for you 😜

@SlaveEt Noted 📝 😉

@Notsimilarreally That’s my line 😌. lol

@AlchemyFox Fucking cancer -__- I'm sorry you're going through that but you are definitely going to kick it's ass and have lots more orgasms.

@MrBlueGuy Yeah, no doubt I'll get through it. What's next life? 😂 I'm looking forward to lots or orgasms.

@AlchemyFox Yeah life does have a tendancy to kick you while you're down sometimes. I find keeping a sense of humour and just rolling with the punches helps a lot..although I've never been through anything like you're going through *hug*

@Lilred2289 I am still healing down there from surgery. I don't want to risk it. I wish I could. It's painful not to 😂

@AlchemyFox ohhhhhhhh! That explains a lot! I’m so sorry. Can you get excited elsewhere like your nipples maybe?

@Lilred2289 I wish I could do some giving 😂 but that's just deprivation talking.

I'll get through, I just hate it.

Thank you 🖤

@AlchemyFox the payoff, when you get the green light will be epic. Just make sure you don’t wind back up in the doctors.

@3Dogmatic yeah I imagine it's going to be an insane orgasm once it happens. I might have to make a special evening of it 😂

@AlchemyFox light some candles, maybe hire a mariachi band, have some chips and dip, you know…. Do it up!

@thepreposterouspanda ffs that sounds awful

@Ferric67 I have to abstain right now unfortunately and I can verify that it is not healthy

@Sojournersoul four weeks... I'm starting to lose sleep 😂 and

@AlchemyFox you can do it. Lol. Stay strong my friend.

@iamonfire696 because of medical reasons? I'm sorry lady. It really sucks. I don't even want sex or a partner, I just want to relieve the pressure for a bit 😔

@AlchemyFox yah because of surgery I had in the summer down there for 4 weeks I couldn’t. I wanted to die 😭.

It’s so frustrating but it’s so important to wait. When I had my c-sections it was 6 or 8 weeks I think.

Hopefully the rest of the time goes by quick. Do you meditate? That might help.