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Straight up, I just don’t like oral

Giving or getting. I don’t like it, I don’t wanna do it, don’t do it to me. It just kinda grosses me out. And getting it hardly does anything for me. It’s annoying when you’re doing a hookup and they’re like wanting you to use your mouth and you gotta be like haha ummm nahhh…. I really wish it was less of a mainstream fetish. Not just something you’re expected to be into by default.
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I don't know. The first time someone went down on me, I didn't think I could feel that much pleasure.
@Barehugs I think you misunderstood it, or I didn't say it correctly. I said it was more pleasure than I had ever felt before because I had never felt that much pleasure. It was almost like an out-of-body experience. It was like I died and went to orgasm heaven. 🥰
Barehugs · 41-45, F
@WonderGirl it’s a incredible feeling, I love just touch with my lips softy kissing and use my top lips to move back the clip hood and use the tip of my tongue to flick and lick around the clit and softly suck and the side my tongue in. It’s such a delicate beautiful experience. To finally feel that flutter between theirs legs feeling them quiver. It such a rush
Lilred2289 · 36-40, F
dumasme · 51-55, M
Interesting take. I don't really enjoy receiving... it makes me feel 'uninvolved' and selfish. I do, however, enjoy going down on a woman. Regardless of the feedback you get here, it is a personal 'taste'.

If you're not enjoying your time with him/her, you should do something different, right? In a case like this, I would prefer kissing, touching... I want my girl to enjoy our time together FULLY.

My $0.02
SWfan · 41-45, M
@dumasme Different strokes for different folks.
dumasme · 51-55, M
@SWfan Indeed.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
Each to their own. Personally I love giving and receiving, maybe even enjoy giving more. I suspect there are quite a fewxshare your opinion, but are embarassed to say so. Anyway, it's your life, your mouth and genitals. Do what works for you.
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Spnk8 · 36-40, M
Yeah honestly I agree I'm not big into either. Like I don't make girls do it to me. Ive had a few gf that loved it so I let them and yes it does feel good but I don't expect everyone to do it to me. I don't like going down on a girl either so I totally get this!
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Yeah... To each their own. Can't expect everyone's likes to be the same. Some women don't even like men so, it is what it is. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

Personally, I'm fond of this album. But my friend thinks its horribly depressing and I find it quite calming.
[media=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7LiTtleraqM]

Things like this enter my head and the gravity of human life would make me think, were I your partner "No blowjobs, well that's just one thing I'd have to accept." It truly is that simple. Some may not... That's their choice and can't be changed by anyone but them. To try to would be silly.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@twistedrope I mean for partners I would do it sometimes, I just wouldn’t like it and it’d be a chore
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Each to their own. It’s important to communicate to your partner.
We all don’t like or like the same things. It’s not wrong.
WillThonger · 56-60, M
Sorry maybe he or she wasn't really into pleasing you. . I enjoyed pleasing my partner.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@WillThonger the problem is they were going about pleasing me the wrong way
Fair enough, I'm not into receiving myself. But I LOVE giving, so I don't think you and I are going to work 😂
If the person going down on you knows what you're doing, it can be just as good if not more pleasurable than PIV sex. Or so I hear.

As a man, getting a blow job is nice, but because of my circumcision, right after I orgasm, my glans becomes uncomfortably sensitive. I don't notice it with PIV sex but it's very unpleasant with oral.
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
@LeopoldBloom I know. The head can get very sensitive and I love blowjobs. She has to stay away from the head at that moment.
@Jonjdw It ruins it for me. I prefer to finish in the V for that reason.
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
I've never (yet) met anyone who didn't like it, and had a girlfriend who could only climax from oral, and preferred it to full sex.
Frostcloud · F
i hate receiving and it's annoying not being believed. both conversations have gone like "im not into it"

then hes like "i can change that 👀"

and im like "cant."

and then he tries it and it just really ruins the mood for me
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Frostcloud

Sorry you go thru that
Do you @ least give ?????
in10RjFox · M
I agree.. what's supposed to be sensitive and secretive and be part of love making process without any mention, have become like an expressed criteria. Guys don't realise how annoying it is to demand it as criteria for a partner.

Reflects only on their disability to charm a girl.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
Everyone is entitled to their own feelings. Just gotta communicate it. And if your partner is unwilling to accept it, then there's not much to be said in favor of staying with them.
Ashly · 26-30, F
Maybe they’re not doing it correctly? Because I love it 👅🤤

I get what you mean tho, 100% of guys want head but sometimes you do it just because you have to 🙄
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@Ashly It should always be reciprocated, but sadly, often it's not.
Barehugs · 41-45, F
That’s fair, good job I’m a giver 😘
Ferric67 · M
I agree with you, I certainly want no part of receiving
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
My first wife was not a fan of recieving oral and flat out hated giving oral my second wife was just the opposite!!
TheShanachie · 61-69, M
Truth is some women don’t care for receiving oral and many don’t want to give it and it should always be respected.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
Salad anybody?

🥗
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
@Zeuro salad tossing Google 🫣
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@LunarOrbit I still don’t get it, what is salad tossing? Is that a sexual innuendo?
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
@Zeuro yes
Richard65 · M
Just curious, you don't feel any pleasure from receiving? Does the gross factor outweigh the pleasurable experience?
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox “I’m not confused, you just confused me” 🤦‍♀

Burnt af lmao
in10RjFox · M
@Zeuro you making a confusing statement, doesn't mean you are confused.. 🤣😀
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i,ve heard few poeple over eyears say that . each to thier own
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
@alicewhite Yes Ma'am.
dale74 · M
I agree with you even from a male perspective I enjoy sex I guess I enjoy just regular vanilla sex you know standard normal positions nothing that involves a chiropractor the next day.
SWfan · 41-45, M
@dale74 nothing wrong with that.
Fawma123 · 46-50, M
My wife loves it and I love giving her so much pleasure
pdockal · 56-60, M
I enjoy both
Iamnaked · M
I throw one leg over my right shoulder,
I throw one leg over my left shoulder,
And say,
Burubbabla blueberry bbly bug.
Nothing better than eating at the Y
I was eating a roast beef sandwich yesterday,
I looked at it, reminded me of a MILF that would fuck my brains out only after I munched her to at least two orgasms.
Some of us can Man up better than others it seems :)
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@Iamnaked is that a song? Lol
Iamnaked · M
@Zeuro Cheech and Chong on stage performing for the Queen of England.
Doing ‘Blind Man Chitlin’ a skit, He was a very old man.
Decades before you were born love.
When raunchy was funnay.
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Heathergain · 22-25, F
It’s ok. I don’t like it either.
SWfan · 41-45, M
@Heathergain ,everybody has their likes and dislikes when it comes to sex.
Oral can be a very powerful thing. On our second date, I gave my husband a blowjob, and he was mine. 🥰
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
I have had a couple of girlfriends like this, they never lasted long. I love getting my face in there. Shave it, worship it, make it squirt.
One girl I dated could multi-orgasm from oral, so while she was cumming I could keep licking and she would cum again and again. I wanted to marry her, but she slipped away.
wudifu · 46-50, M
Hes not doing it right
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@wudifu idk, i think i just don’t like it in general. Also that doesn’t explain why i don’t like giving it either
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
I won't do it to you, Miss 🤭
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@MissyChrissy lol 👍?
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
I love giving and receiving. Females only
pdockal · 56-60, M
Fetish ?????
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pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

Your one of those
No brains & all mouth
Uneducated
Unwilling to learn
I feel sorry for you and those around you
It's a simple concept & others have also pointed it out to you but you simply refuse to accept the facts

🤦

I'm done trying to be nice & give you the facts

I guess your name says it all .... ZERO (not a typo)
@Zeuro If someone gives me a blow job, that doesn't mean I'm sexually aroused by their mouth any more than I'm sexually aroused by my hand if I jerk myself off. If a woman uses a vibrator, that doesn't mean she has a battery-powered piece of plastic fetish.

Are you saying anything other than PIV vanilla sex is a fetish?
WillThonger · 56-60, M
I definitely enjoy giving my partner oral. Watching her head lean back. And her toes curl pleasure. Especially if she grabs my head and presses it in deeper
Asianpersuasion · 36-40, M
Sometimes it takes a bit
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
That illustrates the e importance of communication.
SW-User
Do you like oral exams? I'll prepare a list of questions.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@SW-User depends on the topic but it’s preferable lol
Asianpersuasion · 36-40, M
Internal is best
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
The biggest downside of oral sex is having to go to the dentist for a trim.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Most reasonable people will not differ from what you desire 🙂
Vin53 · M
Have you tried it in a box with a fox?
Vin53 · M
@LeopoldBloom Or, and hear me out here, the giver is enjoying pleasing the recipient and cares very much for them and wants very much to make them happy.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@LeopoldBloom ah. Yeah, the thing is I know I don’t like it cause I HAVE tried it lol
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@Vin53 yeah, problem with that is if the receiver actually isn’t enjoying it
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
It's something you either love or hate.
GrinNude · 61-69, C
I feel like like anyone can use rubbers and have vaginal sex but oral is just for dedicated couples like Ernie and I. Lol Birdie
Fullmetal · 46-50, M
2 wheel drive only...lol
SWfan · 41-45, M
Zeuro, everybody has their likes and dislikes when it comes to sex.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@SWfan yep
Skinnygingesarah · 36-40, F
I dont like giving oral at all
TwistedApe · 51-55, M
I am very so so about getting a blow job. Its a bit of a waste of baby juice. But I do love eating out oussy of a woman I like.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
One of the women I dated didn’t like receiving either. I was like okay 😂🤷🏾‍♂
Just use the asexual label and skip all of it.
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