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Straight up, I just don’t like oral

Giving or getting. I don’t like it, I don’t wanna do it, don’t do it to me. It just kinda grosses me out. And getting it hardly does anything for me. It’s annoying when you’re doing a hookup and they’re like wanting you to use your mouth and you gotta be like haha ummm nahhh…. I really wish it was less of a mainstream fetish. Not just something you’re expected to be into by default.

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WonderGirl

I don't know. The first time someone went down on me, I didn't think I could feel that much pleasure.

Barehugs · 41-45, F

@WonderGirl they wasn’t doing it right

WonderGirl

@Barehugs I think you misunderstood it, or I didn't say it correctly. I said it was more pleasure than I had ever felt before because I had never felt that much pleasure. It was almost like an out-of-body experience. It was like I died and went to orgasm heaven. 🥰

Barehugs · 41-45, F

@WonderGirl it’s a incredible feeling, I love just touch with my lips softy kissing and use my top lips to move back the clip hood and use the tip of my tongue to flick and lick around the clit and softly suck and the side my tongue in. It’s such a delicate beautiful experience. To finally feel that flutter between theirs legs feeling them quiver. It such a rush

Iamnaked

I throw one leg over my right shoulder,
I throw one leg over my left shoulder,
And say,
Burubbabla blueberry bbly bug.
Nothing better than eating at the Y
I was eating a roast beef sandwich yesterday,
I looked at it, reminded me of a MILF that would fuck my brains out only after I munched her to at least two orgasms.
Some of us can Man up better than others it seems :)

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@Iamnaked is that a song? Lol

Iamnaked

@Zeuro Cheech and Chong on stage performing for the Queen of England.
Doing ‘Blind Man Chitlin’ a skit, He was a very old man.
Decades before you were born love.
When raunchy was funnay.

22Michelle · 61-69, T

Each to their own. Personally I love giving and receiving, maybe even enjoy giving more. I suspect there are quite a fewxshare your opinion, but are embarassed to say so. Anyway, it's your life, your mouth and genitals. Do what works for you.

Richard65 · M

Just curious, you don't feel any pleasure from receiving? Does the gross factor outweigh the pleasurable experience?

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Zeuro · 26-30, F

@in10RjFox “I’m not confused, you just confused me” 🤦‍♀

Burnt af lmao

in10RjFox · M

@Zeuro you making a confusing statement, doesn't mean you are confused.. 🤣😀

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wudifu · 46-50, M

Hes not doing it right

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@wudifu idk, i think i just don’t like it in general. Also that doesn’t explain why i don’t like giving it either

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

I've never (yet) met anyone who didn't like it, and had a girlfriend who could only climax from oral, and preferred it to full sex.

WonderGirl

Oral can be a very powerful thing. On our second date, I gave my husband a blowjob, and he was mine. 🥰

Fawma123 · 46-50, M

My wife loves it and I love giving her so much pleasure

Frostcloud · F

i hate receiving and it's annoying not being believed. both conversations have gone like "im not into it"

then hes like "i can change that 👀"

and im like "cant."

and then he tries it and it just really ruins the mood for me

pdockal · 56-60, M

@Frostcloud

Sorry you go thru that
Do you @ least give ?????

TwistedApe · 51-55, M

I am very so so about getting a blow job. Its a bit of a waste of baby juice. But I do love eating out oussy of a woman I like.

dumasme · 51-55, M

Interesting take. I don't really enjoy receiving... it makes me feel 'uninvolved' and selfish. I do, however, enjoy going down on a woman. Regardless of the feedback you get here, it is a personal 'taste'.

If you're not enjoying your time with him/her, you should do something different, right? In a case like this, I would prefer kissing, touching... I want my girl to enjoy our time together FULLY.

My $0.02

SWfan · 41-45, M

@dumasme Different strokes for different folks.

dumasme · 51-55, M

@SWfan Indeed.

2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M

My first wife was not a fan of recieving oral and flat out hated giving oral my second wife was just the opposite!!

LunarOrbit · 56-60, M

Salad anybody?

🥗

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LunarOrbit · 56-60, M

@Zeuro salad tossing Google 🫣

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@LunarOrbit I still don’t get it, what is salad tossing? Is that a sexual innuendo?

LunarOrbit · 56-60, M

@Zeuro yes

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

I have had a couple of girlfriends like this, they never lasted long. I love getting my face in there. Shave it, worship it, make it squirt.
One girl I dated could multi-orgasm from oral, so while she was cumming I could keep licking and she would cum again and again. I wanted to marry her, but she slipped away.

Jonjdw · 51-55, M

I love giving and receiving. Females only

Longpatrol · 31-35, M

Everyone is entitled to their own feelings. Just gotta communicate it. And if your partner is unwilling to accept it, then there's not much to be said in favor of staying with them.

twistedrope · 26-30, M

Yeah... To each their own. Can't expect everyone's likes to be the same. Some women don't even like men so, it is what it is. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

Personally, I'm fond of this album. But my friend thinks its horribly depressing and I find it quite calming.
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Things like this enter my head and the gravity of human life would make me think, were I your partner "No blowjobs, well that's just one thing I'd have to accept." It truly is that simple. Some may not... That's their choice and can't be changed by anyone but them. To try to would be silly.

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@twistedrope I mean for partners I would do it sometimes, I just wouldn’t like it and it’d be a chore

TheShanachie · 61-69, M

Truth is some women don’t care for receiving oral and many don’t want to give it and it should always be respected.

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

The biggest downside of oral sex is having to go to the dentist for a trim.

alicewhite

i,ve heard few poeple over eyears say that . each to thier own

MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

@alicewhite Yes Ma'am.

Heathergain · 22-25, F

It’s ok. I don’t like it either.

SWfan · 41-45, M

@Heathergain ,everybody has their likes and dislikes when it comes to sex.

Barehugs · 41-45, F

That’s fair, good job I’m a giver 😘

pdockal · 56-60, M

Fetish ?????

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pdockal · 56-60, M

@Zeuro

All 3 ?????

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pdockal · 56-60, M

@Zeuro

Still isn't a fetish
Unless I'm mistaken it only involves mouth & genetals .... 2 not 3

in10RjFox · M

I agree.. what's supposed to be sensitive and secretive and be part of love making process without any mention, have become like an expressed criteria. Guys don't realise how annoying it is to demand it as criteria for a partner.

Reflects only on their disability to charm a girl.

MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

I won't do it to you, Miss 🤭

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@MissyChrissy lol 👍?

Spnk8 · 36-40, M

Yeah honestly I agree I'm not big into either. Like I don't make girls do it to me. Ive had a few gf that loved it so I let them and yes it does feel good but I don't expect everyone to do it to me. I don't like going down on a girl either so I totally get this!

dale74 · M

I agree with you even from a male perspective I enjoy sex I guess I enjoy just regular vanilla sex you know standard normal positions nothing that involves a chiropractor the next day.

SWfan · 41-45, M

@dale74 nothing wrong with that.

Ashly · 26-30, F

Maybe they’re not doing it correctly? Because I love it 👅🤤

I get what you mean tho, 100% of guys want head but sometimes you do it just because you have to 🙄

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

@Ashly It should always be reciprocated, but sadly, often it's not.

SWfan · 41-45, M

Zeuro, everybody has their likes and dislikes when it comes to sex.

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@SWfan yep

SW-User

Do you like oral exams? I'll prepare a list of questions.

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@SW-User depends on the topic but it’s preferable lol

ididntknow · 51-55, M

What kind of sex do you like ? Everything but oral ?

Zeuro · 26-30, F

@ididntknow I wouldn’t say everything but oral, anal is also a no-go… idk, just like, normal, penetrative sex. Mainstream positions like missionary and doggy. I like being choked 🤷‍♀. Don’t like being on top, makes me feel fat, and it’s difficult to get a movement going that feels good. Probably in part cause I’m fat.